I've been fired from one job my entire life and my manager hated me from day one.
She did everything possible to get me canned. I didnt kiss her ass like everyone else. Ive never played the politics game. She would call meetings in the morning and not tell me about it. Then use it against me that I didn't show. That was just tip of the iceberg but in the long run she did me a favor. A year later I was 29 and made $100k. Brought my W2 in and showed the bitch, asking if she wanted to compare.
Nice. Like it.
What you point out is one thing that concerns me. Her calling meetings and you not "attending".... Then they "document" you and make a fake paper trail. That's what I'm concerned with. I don't really care about the job. It's just assuring unemployment benefits aren't denied and I don't get bad-mouthed for a future employer.
I was thinking again that that whole charade yesterday was to do a write-up or whatever. Then they make another... and bang!
Whatever. See what kind of nonsense they run today.