Chris my man, its nice to be young and still learning. When I was your age I probably would have said the same thing my friend. Once you get more into the game of relationships, and trust me for most it is indeed a game once you get out of school, you come to realize things are a bit different. Sure we have self-control, but as Chris Rock says "men can't resist it when the ***** is offered to him. He might not search, but he can't resist when it comes to him on a platter". Who knows, someday you'll know what most of us more veteran guys know when you are faced with such a spot. Some girl will use her hands and 36C's in a way they don't teach you in school:missingte
You might resist her, but at that point you will have learned what many of us are talking about here. Women plot these things out for selfish reasons just as men do, don't let them get away with it.