I am sorry, but you gotta tell him and be a real person. Face conflict. If you care about him as a friend you can't just lie and say nothing. That's when your friendship ends. He has a right to know.
I just don't get some people drunk, buzzed, or whatever. You shouldn't be messing with a friends girl.
Be a real man and accept and deal with what comes after you tell him.
Simple as that. Not telling just makes you a puss if you ask me. Like you can't face up to what you did.
I just don't get some people drunk, buzzed, or whatever. You shouldn't be messing with a friends girl.
Be a real man and accept and deal with what comes after you tell him.
Simple as that. Not telling just makes you a puss if you ask me. Like you can't face up to what you did.
What I don't understand is why you didn't bang her again in the morning, you already screwed up so might as well go big. Don't tell no one, what people don't know can't hurt them, ps, I will bet you anything your girl cheats on you too, probably with your friend, just remember that, any girl that is ok with you cheating on her once in a while has some major skeletons in her closet, she has probably banged your friend and his chick. Bottom line, relationships are overrated, just fuckem all.
I was in a spot like this once...my best friends wife was crazy about me, she wasn't all that attractive, a solid C- on a good day.
One night I was leaving his house, when his wife comes home, she ends up talking to me for like two hours out in the parking lot, later she phoned me and told me her husband (my friend) was really mad at her. She then goes on to say if 'we' have an affair I would never tell him,lol...I let that comment slide and didn't say anything.
Next time I saw him, I tried to tell him, but I couldn't...I knew she cheated on him once, like a year earlier, I tried to tell him to just be careful, I considered her a friend at this point, so I didn't say anything else...
Two years later she leaves him, he ends up having to pay an incredible amount of child support as they just had two young kids.
Probably best not to say a word.
One night I was leaving his house, when his wife comes home, she ends up talking to me for like two hours out in the parking lot, later she phoned me and told me her husband (my friend) was really mad at her. She then goes on to say if 'we' have an affair I would never tell him,lol...I let that comment slide and didn't say anything.
Next time I saw him, I tried to tell him, but I couldn't...I knew she cheated on him once, like a year earlier, I tried to tell him to just be careful, I considered her a friend at this point, so I didn't say anything else...
Two years later she leaves him, he ends up having to pay an incredible amount of child support as they just had two young kids.
Probably best not to say a word.
Listen to Judge's advice... and pray like hell she didn't play you to piss him off which is what it sounds like. Does he cheat on her? This could have been a 'revenge f*ck' and if that's the case he's going to find out eventually. Either way, GL and keep your hands up around your chin the next time you see him. :thumbsup2:
03-08-2006, 04:08 PM #11
D2bets
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Hopefully your buddy doesn't know about the RX and connect the dots!
Not concerned about that, he gambles enough, but not ever on the computer
D2bets
RX Wizard
Join Date: Sep 2004
Posts: 6,355
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Hopefully your buddy doesn't know about the RX and connect the dots!
Not concerned about that, he gambles enough, but not ever on the computer
She is young, just turned 23 and she was in a bad situation when I first got with her. I was pretty honest and told her how things were going to be. As our relationship has evolved, I know it is starting to bother her a bit. All-in-all she is a good girl and will do anything to make me happy, but I am just not a "settle down" sort of guy and it does not help that I am at the bar 5 nights a week watching over things.Vaulted Treehouse said:
