Over past 14 years I adopted a private personal attitude that any time I "lend" someone money (though it's only been less than a dozen times for a few hundred or less each) I am in fact "giving" them money.
Therefore I have no personal heat towards them when they don't repay me directly (which most have not). Instead, only they are the ones who must live with the "failure".
Therefore I have no personal heat towards them when they don't repay me directly (which most have not). Instead, only they are the ones who must live with the "failure".