Wife Affair. Ever had your wife cheat on you or girlfriend? How did you react?

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EV Whore
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well man...this really sucks. if you feel it's happening...it probably is.
my wife and I counsel and teach couples to come back from infidelity in their marriage (and save it)...and it's a way different dynamic when women cheat instead of men.
basically...men are like animals...where lust runs deep.
but women...they tend to usually justify their actions. the emotional connection they find in someone else can be broken...but the remorse and empathy towards their actions doesn't click very quickly or easily.

In the poker game of life, women are the rake.

It really is true.
 
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Hey, I apologize for the delay.

In October she started hanging out with this fat, short, single mom she was friends with in October. I saw many of their texts and this loser was constantly giving my wife bad advice, and I think her goal was for us to break up. Fast forward to November and we break up for a week, she had been nagging me, being distant, sometimes I would try to fuck her and she would like make a moan to stop touching her at night.. other times I would be able to fuck her whenever I wanted to.

During this time she started hanging out with the fat chick more frequently to "paint her house", and fix up her house. It started innocently hanging out a random wednesday or thursday, and started moving to every Friday or Saturday and from 5 to 11 PM. She had begun constantly shit testing me worse, nagging, and being an outright c*nt about everything, and basically treating me as if I was a loser while I paid for everything, and took care of her and our three children.

The real siren call was a friday she went and hung out with this broad and she came home, didn't look me in the eye, ate some food, took a bath and kept her cell phone inches from her face, brushed her teeth and went to bed ASAP. I checked google location on her phone and everything was deleted, I brought this up to her and she tried to claim it was because she wasn't using Facebook at the time.. every other situation it works perfectly.

The next day we got in a fight she told me to "leave", I took the money I had the clothes I had on and bounced.

I would bet everything in my mind she is having an affair
 

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Preface to all of this is two years ago, we broke up as my dads business went busto and I let him move into our house. After I had let him move into our house, she had turned into a huge ****, immediately leaving daily from 6 pm to 11 pm telling me I needed to kick him out, abusive to our kids, telling me she hates her life, and wants to leave ( she started this same behavior recently), and then she told me she no longer wanted to fuck me and secretly got on birth control.

I kicked her out during this time, and trickle truth led to the discovery she was seeing at the very least an old fuck buddy from college.

* She currently claims to be pregnant, sent me ultrasound photos, but she rarely contacts me now. I stopped contacting her, she told me "she didn't dislike me or hate me" and my reply was yeah but you're not in love with me, and she hasn't messaged me since in four days lol.

I stopped contacting her and ghosted her.
 

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Hey, I apologize for the delay.

In October she started hanging out with this fat, short, single mom she was friends with in October. I saw many of their texts and this loser was constantly giving my wife bad advice, and I think her goal was for us to break up. Fast forward to November and we break up for a week, she had been nagging me, being distant, sometimes I would try to fuck her and she would like make a moan to stop touching her at night.. other times I would be able to fuck her whenever I wanted to.

During this time she started hanging out with the fat chick more frequently to "paint her house", and fix up her house. It started innocently hanging out a random wednesday or thursday, and started moving to every Friday or Saturday and from 5 to 11 PM. She had begun constantly shit testing me worse, nagging, and being an outright c*nt about everything, and basically treating me as if I was a loser while I paid for everything, and took care of her and our three children.

The real siren call was a friday she went and hung out with this broad and she came home, didn't look me in the eye, ate some food, took a bath and kept her cell phone inches from her face, brushed her teeth and went to bed ASAP. I checked google location on her phone and everything was deleted, I brought this up to her and she tried to claim it was because she wasn't using Facebook at the time.. every other situation it works perfectly.

The next day we got in a fight she told me to "leave", I took the money I had the clothes I had on and bounced.

I would bet everything in my mind she is having an affair

Yeah sounds sketchy for sure.
 

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It sounds like a shitty situation even if she isn't cheating you you. Hope things work out for the best. Good luck
 

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Illini, Scalia wasnt murdered by Obama nor was the World Trade Center blown up by Bush - i can show you a video of a hijacked plane flying right into the building - i can also provide you a list of all the pasengers on the plane that were murdered
 

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Illini, Scalia wasnt murdered by Obama nor was the World Trade Center blown up by Bush - i can show you a video of a hijacked plane flying right into the building - i can also provide you a list of all the pasengers on the plane that were murdered
"People accept the world that is presented to them....they don't question it."
 

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Meanwhile, that gay figure skater is on the air talking about witchcraft right now.
 

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Illini, Scalia wasnt murdered by Obama nor was the World Trade Center blown up by Bush - i can show you a video of a hijacked plane flying right into the building - i can also provide you a list of all the pasengers on the plane that were murdered

I had friends in the Pentagon that day that saw the airplane hit the building. 9/11 conspiracy guys amuse me.
 

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I had friends in the Pentagon that day that saw the airplane hit the building. 9/11 conspiracy guys amuse me.
Wow, they must be amazing. I mean, they saw things that no security camera captured. Wow, just amazing.
 

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Wow, they must be amazing. I mean, they saw things that no security camera captured. Wow, just amazing.

You can question my integrity all you want. They were there. I trust people I've served with for years.
 

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