my first true love was a mixed and was with her for 5 years...
My dad told me it was Him or My girl...
I told him to fuck off and its Me or Your 1970 racist ways...
That's how he was brought up...but I never steered away from my gf but we did end up breaking up. That was 2002-2007ish
Fast forward 10 years.....FUNNY....Now my baby sis (shes 19 now) is dating a black guy...haha I love it. My dad still brings up his dislike for the situation but he knows he has no control.
IMO As long as people are happy what does it really matter...isn't that the reason we LOVE is to be HAPPY?
My dad told me it was Him or My girl...
I told him to fuck off and its Me or Your 1970 racist ways...
That's how he was brought up...but I never steered away from my gf but we did end up breaking up. That was 2002-2007ish
Fast forward 10 years.....FUNNY....Now my baby sis (shes 19 now) is dating a black guy...haha I love it. My dad still brings up his dislike for the situation but he knows he has no control.
IMO As long as people are happy what does it really matter...isn't that the reason we LOVE is to be HAPPY?
caution, brilliance at work
my preference would be that my grandchild have both a mother and father totally involved in it's upbringing, that's the best possible environment
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PS: I think Modern Family is cute too
where do you get hate out of my post ? Never said it wasn't ok to be friends with blacks or do anything else with them for that matter..or to hate them... Just don't want a black grand kid.. sorry if that offends you.. BTW, my daughter is a very bright women that graduated from ASU recently... She wants more out of life anyway. She can do better.
I made a decision a few years back that what I most wanted for my three adult offspring was simple - I want for them whatever they want for themselves, absolutely no exceptions.
Four years ago in January when numerous well-meaning friends and family were urging me to "keep a closer eye on your wife's health and behavior choices' (following her quad bypass heart surgery) I was able to confidently respond, "No thanks, I want her to make whatever choices she wants to make for herself, no exceptions."
Both these positions resulted in such an improved state of well-being for me that I then adopted an overall attitude towards the world at large - I want for you whatever it is you want for you.
The relief in no longet having to track, categorize and judge other people's choices has been palpable. And as noted above, the resulting improvement in my personal health and well being is truly immeasureable.
Four years ago in January when numerous well-meaning friends and family were urging me to "keep a closer eye on your wife's health and behavior choices' (following her quad bypass heart surgery) I was able to confidently respond, "No thanks, I want her to make whatever choices she wants to make for herself, no exceptions."
Both these positions resulted in such an improved state of well-being for me that I then adopted an overall attitude towards the world at large - I want for you whatever it is you want for you.
The relief in no longet having to track, categorize and judge other people's choices has been palpable. And as noted above, the resulting improvement in my personal health and well being is truly immeasureable.
its not like I had to slam my fist on the table and demand this anyway... She is very bright... she's not influenced by this media sensation " in thing " that its cool to be with a black dude or the obsession blacks are having with white women...She's not trying to change my opinion in other words....LOL
doubt if 5% of you have as good a relationship as I have with my daughter........Because we communicate
