which would Hurt you more as a parent?

[tatehill2000]

Your child dating out of their race openly? OR if they were gay?

I'm not a birth parent, I am a foster parent over 3 kids... they are great kids.. But as all parents face as a myriad of issues I look to be facing the above.

now let me say, I am not hurt by either, I love all people... just a different set of perspectives that are now flipping in my brain.

 

[DNoonan]

i wouldnt be excited about it, but if one or both turn out to be gay, i would love them just the same

also, my kids are mixed race so F-U to anyone who has an issue with it

good stuff re: being a foster parent....kids are amazing man

 

[pbampj]

real question is: are you more racist or homophobic?

 

[pocketrockets]

No problem at all but worried cause he will get shit for it, from other stupid people, not me.

Gotta be honest, wouldnt be thrilled about my girl dating a black guy UNLESS he is a real man, not one of "those boys from the hood" who play domino and ball all day, jobless.

 

[Willie99]

I would say being gay, if only because I want grandchildren

 

[DNoonan]

I would say being gay, if only because I want grandchildren

fair point, I would be bummed if I never had grandkids for sure....could also happen with straight kids I suppose but much more likely if they were gay!

 

[RenoChazz]

My kids are mixed too, and all of them have higher IQ's than Vlad.

 

[Haystacks]

I would say being gay, if only because I want grandchildren

Pretty sure lesbians can have kids

 

[DNoonan]

my wife is good pals with a lesbian couple that is married and one of them just gave birth....naturally kiddo only has DNA from one of its moms

 

[Betallsports]

My kids are mixed too, and all of them have higher IQ's than Vlad.

lol

 

[festeringZit]

I'm one of the few left that still believes that homosexuality is immoral.

But, I think there are a lot more of us out there than the mainstream PC crowd wants to admit.

I couldn't care less if my kids date outside their race.

 

[DNoonan]

i respect your views, but if you have a gay kid, good luck "changing" them to be "moral"

 

[Acebb]

Gay and it isn't really close.

If a pharma company invented a pill that a woman could take during her pregnancy to ensure the child would not be gay, the inventor(s) of such pill would be trillionaires.

 

[VIEJODINOSAUR]

Neither one would hurt me....but it seems the OP has a problem....

 

[RunMaker]

Going to report this to a moderator like Pockets does at the drop of a hat....

... b/c the OP is saying he doesn't want to have a gay son sucking a black guy's dick!

 

[pathologist]

Being from the deep south both of these subjects are very touchy. My parents and grandparents 20 years ago would have dis-owned you for either. Times have changed around my area but not alot

 

[StevieRay]

Deep South worse thing could be dating a black of the same sex that voted for Obama

 

[pathologist]

Deep South worse thing could be dating a black of the same sex that voted for Obama

Yeah, your life is over for sure then

 

[halekulani]

gay

not due to personal homophobia but previously mentioned reasons
personal preference for grandchildren
safety
public perception affecting personal and professional life
health

 

[REDEYE]

I would disown my daughter if she was with a black man... She knows it too.. bottom line is I don't want a black kid in my family portrait..