Yea there is a verse in that big book that says do not judge lest you be judged .
The most misinterpreted verse in the Bible.
[FONT="]7 “Judge not, that you be not judged.[/FONT][FONT="] [/FONT][FONT="]2 For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you.[/FONT][FONT="] [/FONT][FONT="]3 Why do you see the speck that is in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye?
[/FONT]The Bible doesn't say that we shouldn't *discern* situations, it says that we should take care of our own business in an area before we point out someone else's problems in
that area.
Besides, there are plenty of other places in the Bible that tell us to judge/discern things:
1 Corinth 2:15 A wise man judges all things
We are not to judge someone's eternal destiny, that is God's job.