My wife is 31 now, a week shy of 24 when we met, says 7 and I believe her. She dated a guy and was engaged before we met and I would be incredibly surprised if she messed around on that guy. Also don't see her tossing it around. Those are the illusions I labor under and none of you fools will ever change my mind.
I had no interest in knowing this information and was entirely comfortable laboring under the illusion it was only 4 (me, former fiance, boyfriend before me and the dude to whom she lost her virginity), but she opened the can of worms and asked me. I responded by saying "I will tell you, but before I do I want you to really think about whether or not you really want to know. If you do, ask me again and I will tell you." She sat there and stewed for about 5 minutes and finally said she wanted to know so I told her the truth. About 5 minutes later she responds by saying "No wonder you gave me cooties **(story below) and asks me if I want to know for her and I reply "no, I am entirely comfortable lying to myself and believing it is 4, me X, Y and Z." She decides to volunteer it is more and blah blah blah before I could shut her up.
One buddy dated a chick in HS and eventually married her who basically slept with almost literally everyone in our group of friends. everyone knew too, including him. I grew up in a pretty small town so it was pretty common that girls ended up banging like 3 or 4 of my friends. Think he is the only one that married a chick that ended up doing that though.
**I was living in LA when we met and moved up here about 3 months later. Ended up getting completely obliterated going out the night before leaving and called her at like 2 am, she gets on a flight to fly to LA at about 6:30 to pack up the trailer and drive my ass up to NoCal. After we unload the trailer and move everything into my apt we start messing around, she stops me and says "I didn't want to stress you out and tell you this while you were moving, but I went to the Dr and you gave me the clap." wasn't pissed at all. That is when you know you should marry that chick.
I had no interest in knowing this information and was entirely comfortable laboring under the illusion it was only 4 (me, former fiance, boyfriend before me and the dude to whom she lost her virginity), but she opened the can of worms and asked me. I responded by saying "I will tell you, but before I do I want you to really think about whether or not you really want to know. If you do, ask me again and I will tell you." She sat there and stewed for about 5 minutes and finally said she wanted to know so I told her the truth. About 5 minutes later she responds by saying "No wonder you gave me cooties **(story below) and asks me if I want to know for her and I reply "no, I am entirely comfortable lying to myself and believing it is 4, me X, Y and Z." She decides to volunteer it is more and blah blah blah before I could shut her up.
One buddy dated a chick in HS and eventually married her who basically slept with almost literally everyone in our group of friends. everyone knew too, including him. I grew up in a pretty small town so it was pretty common that girls ended up banging like 3 or 4 of my friends. Think he is the only one that married a chick that ended up doing that though.
**I was living in LA when we met and moved up here about 3 months later. Ended up getting completely obliterated going out the night before leaving and called her at like 2 am, she gets on a flight to fly to LA at about 6:30 to pack up the trailer and drive my ass up to NoCal. After we unload the trailer and move everything into my apt we start messing around, she stops me and says "I didn't want to stress you out and tell you this while you were moving, but I went to the Dr and you gave me the clap." wasn't pissed at all. That is when you know you should marry that chick.
You figure 14 years of possible sex, to assume she's had sex with less than 1 guy a year is just not feasible to me.
It blows my mind that most people only sleep with something like 15 people in their lifetime? It's like nobody has flings or gets into longterm relationships with the first person that comes along.
It blows my mind that most people only sleep with something like 15 people in their lifetime? It's like nobody has flings or gets into longterm relationships with the first person that comes along.
You got it. Chlamydia isn't any big deal, a tasty little drink cures it. So, if we are recapping, I knew her for 3 months, she found out, didn't want to stress me out so she withheld it while I moved, called her at 2am, she got on a flight at 6 am, packed a trailer with me, drove me (she drove the entire time) from LA to san jose, carried my shit up 3 flights of stairs all AFTER I gave her chlamydia. That, my friends, is when you know you can stop looking.
I have a simple policy...I won't ask you and You don't ask me. Then shit won't get awkward when I dance around and then eventually lie about number that will be in your mind magnified to something more accurate, where then you will begin to feel self conscious and nervous about not matching up to the rest and stuff like that there.
Don't ask don't tell.
Don't ask don't tell.
Man, stinging piss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I thought I had the clap one time after one night with a dirty leg when I was pissing fire the next day or so...went to get my first checkup after that. This was the first time I ever had any symptoms of anything..so I knew for sure I had the clap.
Turns out it was an "urethra infection."
Took some zithromax...and bam. It was gone.
Now the huge, puss-filled bumps on my dick...that's another story.
Kidding
Most women cheat on their man for one reason and one reason only - you are not getting the job down in the sack. If you were she wouldnt feel the need to seek it elsewhere.
Words of advice. If you're a 2 pump chump that cant go long enough to get your girl off, start beating off more. You're sensitivity level will go down, you'll last longer, she'll get off, and you will too eventually, everyone's happy. If you suspect you'll have sex that nite, rub one out 4-5 hours before you see her.
If you're one of those cats who cant get it up, STOP jerking off so much, your sensitivity level will go UP, making it easier to get hard. Now you may have to work hard not to blow your shizzle too quick, but she'll be pleased you at least were aroused enough by her to get it up and in.
You have to find a balance. If you want to keep your woman happy, truly happy - go downtown often, and dont expect her to return the favor. If you do this, she will worship you. Very few guys care enough about their girl to just satisfy them and not get the payoff afterwards...
If you cant find the common ground, get yourself some Levitra and pop those suckers like candy on gameday. If you care enough about your woman, you will do whatever it takes it keep that beeyotch in your bed, and your bed only.
Words of advice. If you're a 2 pump chump that cant go long enough to get your girl off, start beating off more. You're sensitivity level will go down, you'll last longer, she'll get off, and you will too eventually, everyone's happy. If you suspect you'll have sex that nite, rub one out 4-5 hours before you see her.
If you're one of those cats who cant get it up, STOP jerking off so much, your sensitivity level will go UP, making it easier to get hard. Now you may have to work hard not to blow your shizzle too quick, but she'll be pleased you at least were aroused enough by her to get it up and in.
You have to find a balance. If you want to keep your woman happy, truly happy - go downtown often, and dont expect her to return the favor. If you do this, she will worship you. Very few guys care enough about their girl to just satisfy them and not get the payoff afterwards...
If you cant find the common ground, get yourself some Levitra and pop those suckers like candy on gameday. If you care enough about your woman, you will do whatever it takes it keep that beeyotch in your bed, and your bed only.
Completely Untrue ... Do you even like women?
The reason most women cheat on their long term partners is that they are missing an emotional connection, they are looking for excitement, fantasy and escape from the 9-5 job, dealing with the kids, husband that sits on the couch and watches football. Rarely are women going to step out of an LTR for purely sexual reasons if they have the connection, comfort and security from their parter.
I dont know what kind of women you're dealing with but chances are that arent very attractive by your comments. A hot woman will always have an opportunity to cheat on her partner because the chance will be there as men hit on them daily. I'm speaking toward the unmarried, 20-something attractive type of female that are always getting attention from men of all ages, and many times good looking dudes. I'm not so much speaking toward middle aged women who are average-to-below- average looking and has been married for 15-20 years, and dont have men beating down their door.
I probably should've qualified my post to women in the 21-31 range, who are attractive and not yet married.
Hmm I understand what you are saying...but really doesn't matter the age women are women, if all you can bring to the table is Sex, then of course you'd be foolish to believe you won't be traded in quick for the next thing better to come along. But if the relationship is only sex then its not really a relationship then is it? But if you can capture a womans mind it won't matter what either of you look like. Most women won't risk something solid mentally for a quick sexual encounter.
