Question for those married or living with signifigant other....

[boardwalk]

Generally, I prefer if she doesn't come home until the next morning.

 

[Dante]

Let's say you or your signifigant other go out for the evening and the other one is home......what is the "curfew"........what is a reasonable time? what isn't? Should that person be able to stay out and come home when they want?

Some input please ladies and gentleman.......a few people waiting to hear the "world's" opinions.....

for me its 1am.... 1:30 tops

 

[djking]

I have to have JJ's blow up doll in by 3.37 AM ET or goldberg buries me

 

[PatPatriot]

How about just keep walkin.

 

[1cheater]

If you love, respect and Trust eachother you should both come to a comprimise before either one of you go out and stick to that comprimise.. PLAIN and simple.

 

[theswami]

In a trusting relationship time doesn't matter. With that said, neither party can be up to anything good past the time when the bars close.

I would advise each of you in this situation to do two things when you are out:

1) Make an early phone call from your location in a quiet place to let your significant other know that you are where you said you were going to be safe and sound.

2) Make a late phone call to let your significant other know that you are thinking about her and that you do not expect to be home before "X" time. DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES SAY YOU WILL BE HOME BY "X" TIME. If you are anything like me, you always run into someone you want to speak to or that "last" drink takes longer than expected.

MANAGE EXPECTATIONS!!!!

 

[harrington]

I have been married 20 + years and always pretty much know when me or the wife go out alone we usually have a pretty good idea when we will be back. Hell I'm 46 years old now I'm usually home by 9, if I even go out at all. If anything changes I grab the cell and make a call. We pretty much let each other do what they need to do, hell I'm her husband not her father. Later.

 

[JudgeWapner]

In my relationship there are no curfews. Only rule is, if you are gonna be out late, let the other one know.

 

[THE SHRINK]

In my relationship there are no curfews. Only rule is, if you are gonna be out late, let the other one know.

So it is true that you always let DANTE know when you are out late? :howdy:

 

[JudgeWapner]

Always.

 

[gijoe]

me and my wife are swingers and we do have a rule. if she comes home after 12pm, then she has to bring the man's wife or girlfriend home for me. same with me. i have to bring the woman's husband or man friend home for her. been a couple of nice surprises when this happens. she has been known to bring 2 other women home and nothing better than to have 3 women in bed with me. beside that, no other special rules in this house

 

[Rainbow]

me and my wife are swingers and we do have a rule. if she comes home after 12pm, then she has to bring the man's wife or girlfriend home for me. same with me. i have to bring the woman's husband or man friend home for her. been a couple of nice surprises when this happens. she has been known to bring 2 other women home and nothing better than to have 3 women in bed with me. beside that, no other special rules in this house

Thats stronger than Lysol.

 

[PHREAK]

lol...

no other special rules in this house

:hump:

 

[Jabow]

not saying this applies to all, but, for what its worth, I've been with a few women, who calls their significant other (while in bed with me, in the grass, in the car etc) and say hi honey etc,etc and then resume to the *** ing,

but people are peolpe, too much hanging out with the girls, working late etc, usually, and i repeat usually have something behind it. especilly if you're not the greatest in bed.

Please dont EVER forget guys, the women are just as horny as the men are, they just dont show it as much.

 

[StripClubMember]

I'm from the Northeast where places stay open a little later. So I'm gonna say 4AM. But you better be in periodic contact with the other, and if you're gonna come home smashed then you better have a good reason and be able to drop the hammer!!!!

 

[kidslick]

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on what planet?

:lolBIG: back in the 1920's i believe they had curfews like that

 

[QuickLearner]

Here's my rule: Come home as late as you want; just don't wake me up.

 

[UWinSports]

Just remember, you can only get phucked by the people who you trust.

 

[TheGeneral+]

I was married for 10 years and I went out and she went out. Sometines we both would be out till daylight. If you don't trust the other, then you have bigger worries.

 

[Dante]

I was married for 10 years and I went out and she went out. Sometines we both would be out till daylight. If you don't trust the other, then you have bigger worries.

one of your best posts General..you are dead on...TRUST...you should be able to say to your wife that your going out and it should be fine with her