WVU,
The $450 is my car payment (175) and rent each month (275).
Here is the link from prosper saying no:
http://by127w.bay127.mail.live.com/...2d99-5e71-4279-b3a3-2b3e90acf80d&n=1991889922
Let me know if that works or not.
Safeguards such as constant contact, phone numbers, addresses, etc. I think the biggest safeguard would be if someone would help, would have the monthly payment taking right out of my bank account and put into yours...like a ACH I would think. I am almost positive this can be set up with my bank.
To everyone else...thank you for your advice. To respond to a statement, no this is not gambling related. Reality is I can't sell my car and I can't stop going to school. I have one more year of school and can almost taste it. To stop now would to be throwing away the last few years and I can't do this.