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that's kind of a 17 0n 14 type of thing. I'd also think that a senior would prefer someone from his own class. definetly not cool to be 17-18 in HS and dating some 9th grader.

In fact when you are young like say 18-25....it would be very cool to have a G/F that was older...like 25-35....once you're 40 you want the girl to be closer to 20, though !

I don't know it might depend on the crowd you hang out with. I remember when I was a freshman or sophomore in high school you always wanted to bone a grade up and dismissed the people in the grade lower than you. Then as we became seniors in high school we didn't really care if the girl was a freshman in high school or a freshman in college.
 

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How is the nephew a scapegoat? Will his defense be "well, her mother was mean to her so that caused me to fuck her." That sounds like the defense killers use at trial. They say "my daddy spanked me" growing up so it caused me to kill 8 people.

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The English suffixes -phobia, -phobic, -phobe (of Greek origin: φόβος/φοβία ) occur in technical usage in psychiatry to construct words that describe irrational, disabling fear as a mental disorder (e.g. agoraphobia), in chemistry to describe chemical aversions (e.g. hydrophobic), in biology to describe organisms that dislike certain conditions (e.g. acidophobia), and in medicine to describe hypersensitivity to a stimulus, usually sensory (e.g. photophobia). In common usage they also form words that describe dislike or hatred of a particular thing or subject. The suffix is antonymic to -phil-.
For more information on the psychiatric side, including how psychiatry groups phobias such as agoraphobia, social phobia, or simple phobia, see phobia. The following lists include words ending in -phobia, and include fears that have acquired names. In some cases, the naming of phobias has become a word game, of notable example being a 1998 humorous article published by BBC News.[1] In some cases a word ending in -phobia may have an antonym with the suffix -phil-, e.g. Germanophobe / [Germanophile].
A large number of -phobia lists circulate on the Internet, with words collected from indiscriminate sources, often copying each other. Also, a number of psychiatric websites exist that at the first glance cover a huge number of phobias, but in fact use a standard text to fit any phobia and reuse it for all unusual phobias by merely changing the name. Sometimes it leads to bizarre results, such as suggestions to cure "prostitute phobia".[2] Such practice is known as content spamming and is used to attract search engines.[original research?]
Psychological conditions

In many cases specialists prefer to avoid the suffix -phobia and use more descriptive terms, see, e.g. personality disorders, anxiety disorders, avoidant personality disorder, love-shyness.
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  • Xanthophobia – fear of the colour yellow
  • Xenophobia – fear of strangers, foreigners, or aliens
  • Xylophobia, Hylophobia, Ylophobia – fear of trees, forests or wood
Animal phobias

Main articles: Animal phobia and Zoophobia

Non-psychological conditions


  • Photophobia – hypersensitivity to light causing aversion to light
  • Phonophobia – hypersensitivity to sound causing aversion to sounds.
  • Osmophobia – hypersensitivity to smells causing aversion to odors.
Biology, chemistry

Biologists use a number of -phobia/-phobic terms to describe predispositions by plants and animals against certain conditions. For antonyms, see here.

Prejudices and discrimination

See also: List of anti-ethnic terms
The suffix -phobia is used to coin terms that denote a particular anti-ethnic or anti-demographic sentiment, such as Americanophobia, Europhobia, Francophobia, Hispanophobia, and Indophobia. Often a synonym with the prefix "anti-" already exists (e.g. Polonophobia vs. anti-Polonism). Anti-religious sentiments are expressed in terms such as Christianophobia and Islamophobia. Sometimes the terms themselves could even be considered racist, as with "Negrophobia."
Other prejudices include:

Jocular and fictional phobias


  • Aibohphobia – a joke term for the fear of palindromes, which is a palindrome itself. The term is a piece of computer humor entered into the 1981 The Devil's DP Dictionary[7]
  • Anachrophobia – fear of temporal displacement, from a Doctor Who novel by Jonathan Morris.[8]
  • Anatidaephobia – the fictional fear that somewhere, somehow, a duck is watching you. From Gary Larson's The Far Side.
  • Anoraknophobia – a portmanteau of "anorak" and "arachnophobia". Used in the Wallace and Gromit comic book Anoraknophobia. Also the title of an album by Marillion.
  • Arachibutyrophobia – fear of peanut butter sticking to the roof of the mouth. The word is used by Charles M. Schulz in a 1982 installment of his "Peanuts" comic strip[9] and by Peter O'Donnell in his 1985 Modesty Blaise adventure novel Dead Man's Handle.[10]
  • Hippopotomonstrosesquipedaliophobia – fear of long words.[11] Hippopoto – "big" due to its allusion to the Greek-derived word hippopotamus (though this is derived as hippo- "horse" compounded with potam-os "river", so originally meaning "river horse"; according to the Oxford English, "hippopotamine" has been construed as large since 1847, so this coinage is reasonable); -monstr- is from Latin words meaning "monstrous", -o- is a noun-compounding vowel; -sesquipedali- comes from "sesquipedalian" meaning a long word (literally "a foot and a half long" in Latin), -o- is a noun-compounding vowel, and -phobia means "fear". Note: This was mentioned on the first episode of Brainiac Series Five as one of Tickle's Teasers.
  • Keanuphobia – fear of Keanu Reeves, portrayed in the Dean Koontz book, False Memory, where a woman has an irrational fear of Keanu Reeves and has to see her psychiatrist, Mark Ahriman, each week, unaware that she only has the fear in the first place because the psychotic Ahriman implanted it via hypnotic suggestion to amuse himself. He calls her the "Keanuphobe" in his head.
  • Luposlipaphobia – fear of being pursued by timber wolves around a kitchen table while wearing socks on a newly waxed floor, also from Gary Larson's The Far Side.
  • Monkeyphobia – fear of monkeys, as named by Lord Monkey Fist in the animated series Kim Possible. Due to spending a summer in a cabin with a crazy chimp mascot, Ron Stoppable has a fear of monkeys, which he gets over several times, usually during battles with Monkey Fist, who is essentially Ron's arch-nemesis.
  • Nihilophobia – fear of nothingness (comes from the combination of the Latin word nihil which means nothing, none, and the suffix -phobia), as described by the Doctor in the Star Trek: Voyager episode Night. Voyager's morale officer and chef Neelix suffers from this condition, having panic attacks while the ship was traversing a dark expanse of space known as the Void. It is also the title of a 2008 album by Neuronium. Also, the animated version of George of the Jungle (2007 TV series) is seen suffering in one episode of the cartoon, where they are telling scary stories.
  • Robophobia – Irrational fear of robots and/or androids, also known as "Grimwade's Syndrome". First heard in the Doctor Who story The Robots of Death.
  • Semaphobia – fear of average Web developers to use Semantic Web technologies.[12]
  • Venustraphobia – fear of beautiful women, according to a 1998 humorous article published by BBC News.[1] The word is a portmanteau of "Venus trap" and "phobia". Venustraphobia is the title of a 2006 album by Casbah Club.
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References




  • Chris Aldrich (2002-12-02). The Aldrich Dictionary of Phobias and Other Word Families. Trafford Publishing. pp. 224–236. ISBN 1-55369-886-X.

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Haven't you ever dealt with those type of parents who have kids that get into all sorts of trouble and do alcohol and drugs and have sex and instead of looking in the mirror and realize that they didn't do as good as a job raising their kids as they should have they like to blame the behavior of their child on somebody elses child by saying your child is getting my kid into trouble.

I hate parents like that. Their kids end up worse in the long run and grow up to be rotten adults or full time losers because their parents never taught their children to take responsibility for their actions.

I agree, plenty of shitty parents out there who have no business having kids. Unfortunately stuff like that doesn't matter when it comes to stuff like this. A person that age should know the difference between right and wrong however. I know, since when does a person that age give a crap. It happens all the time, but when you get caught you're basically screwed because there's no defense for it.
 

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Doug, I'm not sure what a list of phobias has to do with anything. Is being scared of spiders a defense to murder?
 

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I agree, plenty of shitty parents out there who have no business having kids. Unfortunately stuff like that doesn't matter when it comes to stuff like this. A person that age should know the difference between right and wrong however. I know, since when does a person that age give a crap. It happens all the time, but when you get caught you're basically screwed because there's no defense for it.

The punishment in these type of situations does not fit the crime. It is almost like the teenager isn't the victim the parent is the victim. I have yet to see any kind of case study where a teenage boy or girl that has sex with somebody slightly older than 18 years of age and it caused them any kind of mental anguish at that time or later in life. Althouh I have never attended a rape victim anonymous class I find it heard to believe that somebody actually stand up and says hi my name is Amber and I had sex with a 19 year old man when I was 15 years old and I still lose sleep over the trauma. If that happened I imagined the real rape victims attacking this person in a similar fashion to the scene in that movie Half Baked were Dave Chappelle goes to Narcotics Anonymous and says he is addicted to weed.
 

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Bingo. Unfortunately, this is black and white. The girl is 15. She may have lied about her age, but the prosecution can still turn it around on your nephew for not ID'ing her (who the hell would do that, I know). But if he actually admitted to sleeping with her, both parties saying its consensual or not doesn't matter. She's 15. That number gets a conviction.

Regrettably, you're the only one in this entire thread discussion who understands the concept of statutory rape.

I posted the actual Oklahoma Penal Code §21-1111. No one but you seems to have read it.

Everyone else is focusing on the wrong things.

Whether 15 year old female gave consent or lied about her age is immaterial. Whether the 19 year old nephew believed or relied on her word she was of age is immaterial.

She was 15 years old and under the age of consent (16) in Oklahoma. That is all that matters. He was 19 years old at the time of the intercourse. Everything else is immaterial.

If the 19 year old nephew admitted to the police detectives he slept with her, and this is corroborated by the 15 year old girl's admission .... the nephew is literally screwed IMO.
 

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I believe I stated the same thing.
 

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I knew someone that was in the same boat. He ended taking a plea, avoided the 5 year sentence got no jail time, but had to register as a sex offender and do community service. You'd be surprised how many of those red dots are 18 year olds that had consensual sex with 17 year olds or something close to that.
 

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I knew someone that was in the same boat. He ended taking a plea, avoided the 5 year sentence got no jail time, but had to register as a sex offender and do community service. You'd be surprised how many of those red dots are 18 year olds that had consensual sex with 17 year olds or something close to that.

Yeah, but having to register as a sex offender basically follows you everywhere.
 

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Just found out a friend of mine got a cheap ass room in this house in college park because the guy living in the basement is a registered sex offender and has the red dot. Adds nothing to this thread except that if this guy eventually needs a roommate he might not be able to get full price
 

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There should be different colors or levels of registered sex offenders. Does it make sense that both sex offenders look the same when doing a neighborhood check where one may have slept with his g/f in high school while the other raped little kids?
 

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yep not sure about the character of the girl....shes probably loose but who knows...not sure if it matters or not
 

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yep not sure about the character of the girl....shes probably loose but who knows...not sure if it matters or not

I know someone who went through it although even though he was charged, it went to the Grand Jury and they no-billed him.

It still cost somewhere between 10 to 20k in attorneys fees without a trial.
 

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There should be different colors or levels of registered sex offenders. Does it make sense that both sex offenders look the same when doing a neighborhood check where one may have slept with his g/f in high school while the other raped little kids?

It never has made much sense IMO. I'm not sure why some of these low level ones have to register.
 

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I just noticed one of the charities I give to RAINN (Rape and Incest National Network) doesn't even acknowledge statutory rape victims. I can't imagine too many grief counselors that take calls at 2:00am from a statutory rape victim. Just the simple fact that when a teenage girl admits to having sex with a 19 or 20 year old dude she gets put on restriction. Now why would you have to discipline a supposed "rape" victim?
 

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I'd start with denying it. I'd say I was completely confused and didnt understand the questions. If he answered them without a lawyer they may be inadmissible - especially if not given the option to call a lawyer etc. Id get a good lawyer and run this by him.

Second I'd say I did check her ID - she must have had a fake one. Would be really good if she agreed to this.

Third, I'd try to plea to something lower.

I'd find the best lawyer I could afford with experience in these cases.
 

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There should be different colors or levels of registered sex offenders. Does it make sense that both sex offenders look the same when doing a neighborhood check where one may have slept with his g/f in high school while the other raped little kids?

Every sex offender web site I've been to lists the offense when you click on the red dot. One could see the difference between "statutory rape" and "forced rape of a child under the age of 10".

On a related note, I've seen where some offenders are required to be on the list but are removed after a certain period if they meet all criteria. I think these may be offenders that are still minors and for the lesser sex crimes.
 

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One might argue that any age say 16, 17, 18 is kind of meaningless. If the the Nephew were 16 and Fuccked the 15 it's Fine, but since he's 19 he needs to go to prison ?

One could also argue that since a young girl's things start working at like 14-15 ( or earlier), maybe that is the age of consent ? I would never think about doing a teen girl....unless I was also a teen.

A 19 year old should be be looking for an older chick ( to be cool), not younger.

It is somewhat inappropriate for the 19 year old man to bang the 15 year old girl....but we'd need to see all the facts.
 

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