Best of luck to you.
If you already feel that way, something tells me you'll be alright.
160K..are you serious? You mean in lawyer fees and that and the $$$ you had to give her?
That's good about the lawyer only costing $750. I've had people tell me they paid 30-40k in lawyer fees, which I feel is criminal. I think that usually happens when couples are really pissed at each other. That's excellent you were able to work things out on your own, too. That goes a long way for anything that comes up in the future, concerning your kids and such and who knows, you may need each other's help or friendship someday.
http://buffalo.craigslist.org/ers/
On that page:
I LOVE IT IN ALL THREE DADDY I'M FREAKY AS IT CAN GET - w4m - 19
She has a banana sticking out of her ass.