Leykis,
Excellent points. One would think the more effort one puts in, the greater the expected return, but not so. Dating is like quantum physics -- there is duality, the uncertainty principle, anti-matter and all the rest. Forget Newtonian mechanics, that's all wrong. Equal and opposite reaction -- hogwash!! The selfish, cost and time minimizing approach actually increases your chances so it's a win-win for all involved.
Excellent points. One would think the more effort one puts in, the greater the expected return, but not so. Dating is like quantum physics -- there is duality, the uncertainty principle, anti-matter and all the rest. Forget Newtonian mechanics, that's all wrong. Equal and opposite reaction -- hogwash!! The selfish, cost and time minimizing approach actually increases your chances so it's a win-win for all involved.
Some more Leykis 101 rules(top notch advice for single guys)
1. No coffee dates, no lunch dates....dates where alcohol is flowing
2. There should as little time as possible from taking a girl drinking to banging. Don't stop for food, she'll sober up and also her breath will stink.
3. Thursday-Saturday is offlimits for a girl unless its definite poon. This time is spent hanging out with your friends and having a good time. Do not pick up the phone during the weekend to show that you do have a life and to get her wondering
4. DO not have a serious relationship under the age of 25
5. (For virgins) To get it done, Leykis says start with fat chicks who are experienced or older women. Older women will love a young guy hitting on them and will show them the ropes. Remember: To play in the game, you have to warm up in the bullpen.
6. Don't dip your friend in the company ink...in fact I think you should not bang a chick who knows someone in your circle or friends.
7. WE ARE PROUD TO BE ASSHOLES...wear it like a badge. But when meeting a chick I think you just need to be cool and confident, cuz being an asshole in the beginning won't get her panties off
8. USE A CONDOM....and when your done with it get rid of it good....some chicks are just that crazy.
9. From Tom himself: The best chicks are the ones who aren't totally americanized. Those girls are pretty much faithful, are hot, good in bed, and will treat you well.
10. Try to best you can to make sure you don't bring a chick back to your place to bang (this one is hard to follow i guess)....cuz you don't want a girl who knows where you lived after you dumped her and gone to the next girl.
11. Your income will reflect how much and the quality of poon you get. Strive high, don't settle, stay hungry. Girls upgrade all the time, and guys should be able to also.
12. Do not leave voicemails. I guess in my views, especially if she sees that you were the one who called, she'll wonder why you called, and it will make it seems you don't have too much time for her and might of made other plans.
13. Show any way possible that you don't need her. Make her feel like she matters, but she is easily replaceable.
14. This was in the movie Swingers, and Tom's played it before, NEVER call a bitch twice in the same week.
15. Christmas, New Year's eve and Day, Valentine's Day, Thanksgiving, hers or your birthday, these are days that are off limits. You do not make plans with her on these days.
16. Eat a hearty meal before taking a girl out to dinner. Tell the waiter that you'll just have a salad. Tell your date your eating healthy. What girl is going to eat more than you?
17. Guys, if you HAVE to buy a gift for a girl, getting jewelry is probably the worst idea. Aside from the money, girls take jewelry as a sign of committment (heard that from a girl i know personally. She was dissapointed she didn't get jewelry for her anniversay). Getting her jewelry will either A)scare her off cuz of comittment or B)drive her more into committment, which unless you plan on marrying the girl, you don't want to do.
18. Women Are attention whores,,,self-explanatory.
19. A larger woman means a good hummer. Expanation,,,Fat women love to eat!
20. Men don’t dance! The only exception is if you are Gay or Latino. Women dance as they are always in constant competing against each other. Women don’t dress for you they dress for each other.
21. Never be buddies with a woman. Never help or offer to help a woman. A woman always needs to have the appearance that she has somebody on the side. That person on the side is always somebody she can control to do all the dirty things that she needs done. That person never gets anything for his help and is usually left out of the really good things in life. Never be that person.
22. Never have children until you are married and have been married for a couple of years or more. Once children are involved there is no such thing as separation. She will always be involved. Children need a good stable family unit, mother and father in their lives for a proper upbringing.
1. No coffee dates, no lunch dates....dates where alcohol is flowing
2. There should as little time as possible from taking a girl drinking to banging. Don't stop for food, she'll sober up and also her breath will stink.
3. Thursday-Saturday is offlimits for a girl unless its definite poon. This time is spent hanging out with your friends and having a good time. Do not pick up the phone during the weekend to show that you do have a life and to get her wondering
4. DO not have a serious relationship under the age of 25
5. (For virgins) To get it done, Leykis says start with fat chicks who are experienced or older women. Older women will love a young guy hitting on them and will show them the ropes. Remember: To play in the game, you have to warm up in the bullpen.
6. Don't dip your friend in the company ink...in fact I think you should not bang a chick who knows someone in your circle or friends.
7. WE ARE PROUD TO BE ASSHOLES...wear it like a badge. But when meeting a chick I think you just need to be cool and confident, cuz being an asshole in the beginning won't get her panties off
8. USE A CONDOM....and when your done with it get rid of it good....some chicks are just that crazy.
9. From Tom himself: The best chicks are the ones who aren't totally americanized. Those girls are pretty much faithful, are hot, good in bed, and will treat you well.
10. Try to best you can to make sure you don't bring a chick back to your place to bang (this one is hard to follow i guess)....cuz you don't want a girl who knows where you lived after you dumped her and gone to the next girl.
11. Your income will reflect how much and the quality of poon you get. Strive high, don't settle, stay hungry. Girls upgrade all the time, and guys should be able to also.
12. Do not leave voicemails. I guess in my views, especially if she sees that you were the one who called, she'll wonder why you called, and it will make it seems you don't have too much time for her and might of made other plans.
13. Show any way possible that you don't need her. Make her feel like she matters, but she is easily replaceable.
14. This was in the movie Swingers, and Tom's played it before, NEVER call a bitch twice in the same week.
15. Christmas, New Year's eve and Day, Valentine's Day, Thanksgiving, hers or your birthday, these are days that are off limits. You do not make plans with her on these days.
16. Eat a hearty meal before taking a girl out to dinner. Tell the waiter that you'll just have a salad. Tell your date your eating healthy. What girl is going to eat more than you?
17. Guys, if you HAVE to buy a gift for a girl, getting jewelry is probably the worst idea. Aside from the money, girls take jewelry as a sign of committment (heard that from a girl i know personally. She was dissapointed she didn't get jewelry for her anniversay). Getting her jewelry will either A)scare her off cuz of comittment or B)drive her more into committment, which unless you plan on marrying the girl, you don't want to do.
18. Women Are attention whores,,,self-explanatory.
19. A larger woman means a good hummer. Expanation,,,Fat women love to eat!
20. Men don’t dance! The only exception is if you are Gay or Latino. Women dance as they are always in constant competing against each other. Women don’t dress for you they dress for each other.
21. Never be buddies with a woman. Never help or offer to help a woman. A woman always needs to have the appearance that she has somebody on the side. That person on the side is always somebody she can control to do all the dirty things that she needs done. That person never gets anything for his help and is usually left out of the really good things in life. Never be that person.
22. Never have children until you are married and have been married for a couple of years or more. Once children are involved there is no such thing as separation. She will always be involved. Children need a good stable family unit, mother and father in their lives for a proper upbringing.
Tekari,
Here is a good link for some of the 101 rules. http://www.rajuabju.com/leykis/viewtopic.php?t=190
Tom's actual site is listed by bettorstalk.com above.. blowmeuptom.com
I listen to his radio show daily, the 101 portion of the program is every Thursday at 5pm Pacific, I hear it on 97.1 KLSX here in LA.
Here is a good link for some of the 101 rules. http://www.rajuabju.com/leykis/viewtopic.php?t=190
Tom's actual site is listed by bettorstalk.com above.. blowmeuptom.com
I listen to his radio show daily, the 101 portion of the program is every Thursday at 5pm Pacific, I hear it on 97.1 KLSX here in LA.
