My girlfriend got up and left too - being serious - she lives in the Bay Area and I live in Miami - for three nights in a row she beat me down for about an hour on the phone over and ex, ex, ex, ex gf who I am not doing anything with so I hung up on her each night - yesterday she never got back to me and she has said nothing - how do I know it's over? she has disowned me on Facebook and her whole family knows me so she's not playing - we dated for 15 months - of course my dog died days ago too - pretty sure I'm gonna take some time off and go to Thailand for a couple of months
Then on top of that I got caught basically doing the unthinkable. It was something I did 2 years ago when I was drinking and she just found out about it. Even though I have been sober for 15 months and I did that when I was hammered black-out drunk, that obviously isn't flying...especially with all our other issues.
So you cheated on her 2 years ago, and she just found out about it?
With her best friend. Without protection. In our bed.
I am not looking for sympathy it was a real asshole thing to do and I am getting what I deserve. It just really was a 1 time mistake, that is not me, and I was in a really bad place back then. But it's pretty inexcusable.