Why are married people so boring

[Betallsports]

I understand the single point of view but once married and you have kids their is nothing better than family. I don't judge the single life so don't judge me.

I agree with this... but he is trying to use the "Swinger" card ... lol

 

[Betallsports]

not everybody dont give a rat ass about kids, it so over-rated imo

But you wouldn't know if it's Overrated ...

 

[Betallsports]

I can only speak for myself as a married man, but I'm just quietly waiting for the sweet release of death.

by Request.....

Does your Wife know you are counting down Her days ??

 

[CarolinaKid]

i know there are a few that have fun ect but on the average most married people are not happy

 

[CarolinaKid]

Bet let me ask you this, you said you have been married 2 times, what happen to the 1st one

 

[Betallsports]

i know there are a few that have fun ect but on the average most married people are not happy

Yes I could agree with this. since the Divorce rate is something like 51%

 

[Betallsports]

Bet let me ask you this, you said you have been married 2 times, what happen to the 1st one

Hopefully dead in a ditch somewhere

 

[CarolinaKid]

LOL i rest my point

 

[HamGlaze]

by Request.....

Does your Wife know you are counting down Her days ??

 

[HarryCaray]

Hopefully dead in a ditch somewhere

Hahahahahahaha

 

[HarryCaray]

As for the OP...

I have lived both ways. Was married for 6 years, have been single for 3 since.

There are advantages and disadvantages to both ways of life. There are things I love about being single, and things I hate. There were things I loved about being married, and things I hated. And the things I hated about being married might not be an issue with a different woman.

I can say this, I certainly wasn't boring when I was married. Nothing was any different about me in that department.

 

[CarolinaKid]

My point is that most married people are married as to not be label a loser imo.once the honeymoon is over with it get old fast and both male and female become very boring to the outside world, there are some as Bet pointed out that does not fit this normal thing but on the average most married couples are not happy and just go on with each day on a boring thing

 

[Betallsports]

LOL i rest my point

Not the case with my current wife... She makes me a better person.

 

[HarryCaray]

My point is that most married people are married as to not be label a loser imo.once the honeymoon is over with it get old fast and both male and female become very boring to the outside world, there are some as Bet pointed out that does not fit this normal thing but on the average most married couples are not happy and just go on with each day on a boring thing

That is such a strange perspective. Did you ever consider that PEOPLE just get more boring as they age? I don't think it has anything to do with being married.

As far as happiness, I would argue that the overall happiness of married people is much higher than that of single folks. I'm sure there are studies out there...

 

[CarolinaKid]

Congrats Bet you got lucky my friend and i hope it never ends for you guys there, but sadly most are lock in to what you had with your 1st wife

 

[CarolinaKid]

Harry good point sir, but with the married thing it seem like a lot of people age more sitting at home with the better half ect and thus becoming very boring and not having fun.again there are some that dont fit this, but again im talking on the average

 

[Enfuego]

not everybody dont give a rat ass about kids, it so over-rated imo

Nothing better in life than watching your kids grow and succeed.

 

[Enfuego]

My point is that most married people are married as to not be label a loser imo.once the honeymoon is over with it get old fast and both male and female become very boring to the outside world, there are some as Bet pointed out that does not fit this normal thing but on the average most married couples are not happy and just go on with each day on a boring thing

Or maybe they've met and fell in love with the perfect person for them?

On average, most married couples are not happy? What a weird thing to say.

 

[CarolinaKid]

^^^^^^^^^^^^^but again not everybody want kids and a lot of married people fall back on the kids thing when they talking about being married................

 

[CarolinaKid]

yep i stand by most married people are not happy, just look at the divoice rate