If your wife or gf stays on facebook too much then you probably should put your foot down.
I have three employees at my place who have lost their wives to other men on facebook.
One of the guys's wives left him for a one-legged dude! (not that there's anything wrong with one-legged guys)
Women post their selfies & old male friends from high school or wherever send them messages telling them how good they look .
And of course women fall for that crap.
I'm one of the lucky ones who has a wife who doesn't think we need facebook.
Don't get me wrong I'm a big tech kind of guy, but facebook is pure evil, mainly used (not all of course) as drama, cheating, and dating site.
No telling how many hundreds of thousands, or millions, of relationships facebook has ruined.
If you're n a relationship it is my opinion you should share an account with both of your names or at the least a no-brainer to share login info.
My wife and i share one but rarely use it.
I have three employees at my place who have lost their wives to other men on facebook.
One of the guys's wives left him for a one-legged dude! (not that there's anything wrong with one-legged guys)
Women post their selfies & old male friends from high school or wherever send them messages telling them how good they look .
And of course women fall for that crap.
I'm one of the lucky ones who has a wife who doesn't think we need facebook.
Don't get me wrong I'm a big tech kind of guy, but facebook is pure evil, mainly used (not all of course) as drama, cheating, and dating site.
No telling how many hundreds of thousands, or millions, of relationships facebook has ruined.
If you're n a relationship it is my opinion you should share an account with both of your names or at the least a no-brainer to share login info.
My wife and i share one but rarely use it.
Honestly true too.
One guy always went to bed early & made comments about his wife staying up late on the computer "talking to friends". That was instantly a red flag. I urged him to check & see what she was REALLY doing, but again he says "ehh she's just talking to friends".
Few months later, it happened.
She told him the truth & left.
A guy with 1 damn leg! (all about the sweet talking her I elaborated on in first post)
Next guy of the three, I saw on his facebook profile one day in the offfice.
Noticing a girl on his friends list that I knew, I jokingly tell him to send her a msg.
He replies that no his wife will see it & get on his azz.
So I ask "oh so she has your password to login?"
He says yes.
I ask "do you have hers?"
He says ""No she hasn't (or won't) given it to me"
I think to myself WTF SAY WHAT?!?
Turns out, same thing happens as the first guy.
She leaves him for a facebook guy.
She gets pregnant from the facebook guy, loses the baby, runs back to guy she cheated on, he takes her back, she does it AGAIN later with another guy on facebook!
3rd guy similar story to guys above but not quite as crazy...
One thing I left out...
As I mentioned, my wife and i have an acct together.
The background pic is of myself and our lil girl, the foreground pic is of my wife & the 3 kids, and the account has both of our names on it.
We rarely check it, but a few months ago when I logged in, there was one private msg that stood out.
It was an old boyfriend of hers from freaking high school!
He proceeds in telling her how his wife loves him so much, but he can't stand her, and how he was thinking about her (my wife) and how he messed it up.
Now... This has to be one stupid-azz MoFo to msg someone's wife....WHO SHARES AN ACOUNT WITH HER HUSBAND.
This guy must have a death wish or something because some guys would have found him & shot his azz.
Luckily I'm a guy who it takes A LOT to get angry, combined with I am rational & thought it through.
I figured this guy either had to be drunk or high to take that risk.
At the least, we could have shown his wife what he had done/sent....
As I mentioned, my wife and i have an acct together.
The background pic is of myself and our lil girl, the foreground pic is of my wife & the 3 kids, and the account has both of our names on it.
We rarely check it, but a few months ago when I logged in, there was one private msg that stood out.
It was an old boyfriend of hers from freaking high school!
He proceeds in telling her how his wife loves him so much, but he can't stand her, and how he was thinking about her (my wife) and how he messed it up.
Now... This has to be one stupid-azz MoFo to msg someone's wife....WHO SHARES AN ACOUNT WITH HER HUSBAND.
This guy must have a death wish or something because some guys would have found him & shot his azz.
Luckily I'm a guy who it takes A LOT to get angry, combined with I am rational & thought it through.
I figured this guy either had to be drunk or high to take that risk.
At the least, we could have shown his wife what he had done/sent....
That's exactly what everyone told him lol.
I guess we have all been weak at times in our lives...
My wife, since I don't do Facebook. She's always showing me stuff on it, like pictures from friends and family and especially grandchildren
PS: And I have no concerns she's "hooking up" with somebody
PS: And I have no concerns she's "hooking up" with somebody
PS: And I have no concerns she's "hooking up" with somebody
No concerns.... Or no cares....there's a difference Willie puff_>>
