First off thanks for all the replies. You took the time to answer my questions and steer me in the right direction (most of you) and I felt you should get a reply back. If I missed anyone, sorry about that, but I rapid fired responses back in kind.
My takeaways from this is to look at Betdsi, Heritage and Bookmaker using the CRIS side.
I believe I may have old accounts at the latter two but haven't been used in a while. I've done a lot of business offshore over the years, way more on the winning side and have been given the thanks for playing with us but you're not welcome anymore. You know the we are for recreational bettors. They should have on their front page, we only want losing customers, winning customers don't deposit. Or just call their book Sucker Bets. Home of the losing players.
Also to the people that sent me messages, it is 99.9% certainty I will just delete your message, it's nothing personal but as I stated in my opening post, I didn't want that at all. I think this kind of back and forth is good for the forum because there are likely people that have questions and are afraid to ask in fear of being shunned. Hopefully this has been an education for others.
Thanks again everyone and mods if you want you can lock this topic down from further discussion or keep it open for others to chime in if they like.
Good luck to all.