just getting gifts period---ive spent the holiday season still out in the midwest and not with family, met up and old colelge roomate in chicago over hte weekend, invited me to spend xmas in fort wayne, IN with his family, his parents who i'm very fond of have 7 kids and yet when they found out 2 days in advance that i was joining them took the time to get me 5-7 gifts and a stocking.
couldn't be more blessed to the family and friends in my life that i have....i'm still in awe at their generosity.