Thank you brother; I apologize for coming at you the other night.Keep in mind she had a long life - and focus on the things that she was proud of, or things that made her happy. Remember that everyone dies, but not everyone gets a full life beforehand - and that is something to take comfort in.
Ive done it a few times. Its an honor and a job and you were chosen because you are a man who is a pillar of the family. You hold your head high and you set an example for the young kids watching. You'll do fine.
My problem is that I don't process grief well and hold a lot of emotions in.
You're a class act Harry; thank you for the advice.I'm the same way, just use it to your advantage for that one day. Don't let your emotions come out for that one day, because others in your family will be looking to you to be a rock. That's what I always tell myself...that I'll be the rock in the moment and then deal with my emotions more privately.
She was happy as can be; lost her husband 34 years ago. We all can learn valuable life lessons from senior citizens.Dress nice...do your duty. Long lived..hopefully happy life.
There's always time to cry afterwards.
My grandma was the most special person in my life....learned many a life lessons from that Lady.