I admit I used to hate on and ridicule gays if I ever ran into one but now I understand that they are no different than mentally handicapped people.
Sure they are committing sin and doing something disgusting and very wrong. Sure they act like if you aren't ok with their lifestyle you must be a homophobe who's insecure with themselves or just ignorant when the fact is you just don't like gays.
They just don't know any better than those with mental handicaps. They have a disorder/disease or some kinds of malfunction or missing some hormones or have too much of one kind that makes them think, act, and feel like they do.
I am saying this because an old co-worker I ran into who was actually contemplating suicide admitted to me he was gay. I just happened to be at the right place at the right time where he just had to let it out. He told me this at the mall where he was sitting by himself looking very strange so I came up and said hey. Wow did I not expect to hear the things he had to say.
It was all very enlightening. He works at a highly paid postion in the science field. He believes it's all hormones and stuff ''wiring'' inside that goes wrong in the fetus or babies or something that causes people to be gay. He says it's not a matter of choice he just ended up like this. He went on to say that his mother was extremely stressed out during birth and that somehow affected his makeup because of him ending up with more estrogen than he should or something like that. I'm not in the science field so I don't know how to summarize everything he told me.
My point is that he agrees that people need to work at finding a cure for it and treat it like a disease or disorder.
After talking with him I'm never going to treat a gay like shit or talk smack about them. I see now they really have a disorder and I feel bad for them like I do mentally handicapped people.
Anyways, that's all. Nomore hating on gays and next time I see that openly gay cashier at my local Safeway, I'm not going to make a point of muttering ''homo'' or ''fag'' to him.
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Sure they are committing sin and doing something disgusting and very wrong. Sure they act like if you aren't ok with their lifestyle you must be a homophobe who's insecure with themselves or just ignorant when the fact is you just don't like gays.
They just don't know any better than those with mental handicaps. They have a disorder/disease or some kinds of malfunction or missing some hormones or have too much of one kind that makes them think, act, and feel like they do.
I am saying this because an old co-worker I ran into who was actually contemplating suicide admitted to me he was gay. I just happened to be at the right place at the right time where he just had to let it out. He told me this at the mall where he was sitting by himself looking very strange so I came up and said hey. Wow did I not expect to hear the things he had to say.
It was all very enlightening. He works at a highly paid postion in the science field. He believes it's all hormones and stuff ''wiring'' inside that goes wrong in the fetus or babies or something that causes people to be gay. He says it's not a matter of choice he just ended up like this. He went on to say that his mother was extremely stressed out during birth and that somehow affected his makeup because of him ending up with more estrogen than he should or something like that. I'm not in the science field so I don't know how to summarize everything he told me.
My point is that he agrees that people need to work at finding a cure for it and treat it like a disease or disorder.
After talking with him I'm never going to treat a gay like shit or talk smack about them. I see now they really have a disorder and I feel bad for them like I do mentally handicapped people.
Anyways, that's all. Nomore hating on gays and next time I see that openly gay cashier at my local Safeway, I'm not going to make a point of muttering ''homo'' or ''fag'' to him.
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