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Dungy's death called an 'apparent suicide'

James, the 18-year-old son of coach Tony Dungy, was found by his girlfriend early Thursday at his apartment in Lutz.

By STAFF, WIRE REPORTS
Published December 22, 2005
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TAMPA, Fla. - James Dungy, the 18-year-old son of Indianapolis Colts coach Tony Dungy, was found dead in a Tampa-area apartment, police said Thursday.
James Dungy's death was "apparently a suicide," said Dick Bailey, spokesman for the Hillsborough County Medical Examiner's Office.
James Dungy's girlfriend found him when she returned to the Campus Lodge Apartments in Lutz, Fla., the Sheriff's Office said in a news release on its Web site. Police responded at 1:32 a.m. Thursday and performed CPR on Dungy before he was taken to University Community Hospital, where he was pronounced dead.
Tony Dungy has left the Colts and is in Tampa. The Colts (13-1) are at Seattle on Saturday, and team president Bill Polian said that assistant head coach Jim Caldwell has taken over for Dungy.
"The thoughts and prayers of everyone in this building are with Tony and (wife) Lauren, their children and their extended family, and for the repose of James' soul," Polian said at a news conference at the Colts' training facility in Indianapolis. "This is a tragedy for the Dungy family and by extension his football family here with the Colts."
Owner Jim Irsay and Polian met with team officials and players to break the news.
"It was not easy, and it was somber, to say the least," Polian said.
Caldwell will take over "for however long Tony will be away and however long he will be away is entirely up to him," Polian added.
Chaplains were brought in to talk with the team.
"I don't think there's anyone here that would wish to play a football game under these circumstances, but it's our obligation and we'll fulfill that obligation because that's what Tony wants us to do," Polian said.
The Dungys have four other children: daughters Tiara and Jade and sons Eric and Jordan. James, their second-oldest child, was taking extension classes at the University of South Florida, Morgan said.
James Dungy spent his senior year at North Central High School in Indianapolis and graduated this year. C.E. Quandt, the school's principal, said Dungy was a personable student who never flaunted his father's position.
"He just came in and tried to blend in and be a student," Quandt said. "I liked James a lot."
Quandt said Dungy visited North Central a week or two ago to pick up a transcript. He said the death surprised and saddened everyone at the school.
"It kind of diminishes our school family," he said.
James stood 6-foot-7 and was sometimes was mistaken for one of his father's players, the Indianapolis Star reported on its Web site. James and his younger brother, Eric, sometimes watched Colts games from the sidelines, but they had to earn it by doing well in school.
By 10:30 a.m., the scene of Dungy's death bore no obvious signs of what had occurred. Deputies and the medical examiner had long gone (though officers did return to tell reporters to keep their distance). No crime scene tape cordoned off the apartment building.
Reno Satterfield, regional manager for the Campus Lodge Apartments, said she had spoken to Dungy's neighbors, but no one had any information about what had happened overnight, other than what they had heard on the morning news. She asked reporters to leave the property and not disturb the residents.
Outside the apartment complex, people interviewed expressed surprise that Dungy lived there and sadness for his family.
Tampa Mayor Pam Iorio began a park dedication Thursday morning by asking for a moment of silence on behalf of Dungy.
The former Bucs coach is dear to the heart of Tampa, she said.
"We love him and his family," she said.
New York Jets coach Herman Edwards, one of Dungy's closest friends, called James a "very, very good kid.
"The whole family is good people. You know Tony, how he raised a family," Edwards said from Jets training camp in Hempstead, N.Y. "A tragedy. I know the prayers of the National Football League go out to him and his family."
Fans posted prayers and messages of support for Dungy, who also coached the Tampa Bay Buccaneers, on a message board on a Colts fan Web site.
"Not only was he a great football coach for the Bucs, but he is an even better person," one Tampa Bay fan wrote. "It makes me sick that it happened at this time of year to a person that is so giving and caring."
 

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Jasin-Tony coached the Bucs and James was just entering high school at the time. I am sure he did not want to leave his friends behind and enrolled at S.Florida and Hillsborough Comm.
 

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Guess who that was.
 

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This has got to be a difficult situation. I live here in Tampa and something like this hits a little close to home.

I recently found my son's MySpace page and was a little surprised. To me, it appeared that the whole thing was embellished to make him look cool--what I saw on the page wasn't my son. Or was it? Maybe I'm confused.

No doubt Tony Dungy had not seen his son's page. If he did, he would have probably 1) made him clean it up or 2) ignore it and think it was a bit of joke. I did essentially the same thing with my son--I made him take out the disrespectful language. (His was nothing like Dungy's kid. My son was making himself out to be some really cool skateboarder. He does skateboard, but not anywhere near as well as he represents.) Maybe that stuff on the internet is the real deal and was a cry for help. I don't know.

Parenting today (parenting anyday, really) is not easy. I anguish over a lot of the decisions and choices that I make with my kids. My oldest (the MySpace skateboarder) is 13 and the future is scary. I was a "good" kid/honor student growing up and I know the things I was doing (drinking beer at age 14, girls at 16/17, going to the dog track a few nights a week when I was 16.)

Tough situation. The worst--the absolute worst--thing in this world is for a parent to lose a child.
 

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Budworth22 said:
My 2 cents...

This kid was a BET gangster. I know a couple black guys like him, affluent, smart, etc..yet they are stuck in the middle. They aren't black or white enough. He put a lot of time into that webpage, real gangsters don't do that. He just tried to portray the images that the music talks about. I bet this kid did have some major depression issues. Probably was the tall black kid in the all white private school. This might be drugs, but this kid isn't a thug or a gangsta. He was just doing what millions of guys my age do on their pages, trying to be tougher than he is.
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What he said.
 

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Budworth22 said:
My 2 cents...

This kid was a BET gangster. I know a couple black guys like him, affluent, smart, etc..yet they are stuck in the middle. They aren't black or white enough. He put a lot of time into that webpage, real gangsters don't do that. He just tried to portray the images that the music talks about. I bet this kid did have some major depression issues. Probably was the tall black kid in the all white private school. This might be drugs, but this kid isn't a thug or a gangsta. He was just doing what millions of guys my age do on their pages, trying to be tougher than he is.
Bud

id have to say that your pretty accurate with your 2 cents
 

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I couldn't access the site, maybe its down, but if the poster who said this kids heroes were the DC sniper, I'd say this kid is pretty freaking messed up. Some other things sound like he was racist to say the least.
 

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Class act on myspace part. Really isnt fair to Tony to try and pick that page apart and figure out his son just by looking at that.
 

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very disapointed sitting here in indy watching local news. as they just showed james dungy's website and spoke of how it even talked about his love for football and family... im pretty sure it spoke of drugs gangsters and hate--feel horrible for tony dungy but come on why cover it up I even asked my 18 year old son today if he had a website like that...let people know the "real troubled beliefs this kid had"
 

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Hate to say it but you have to think this will effect the Colts chances to win the AFC...
 

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JackStraw77 said:
The first line on his MySpace page was F*ck The Police. :finger:

And Tony didn't have a clue this kid was that messed up...By the way these Myspace things are all the rage. Those of you out there with kids should wake up to the stuff that goes on there.
 

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In no way, shape or form can one prove that "kids are a product of their environment, period" as one poster claims.
There is most certainly an age where they decide to make their own decisions. Their environments may influence their decision making processes, or might not.
This childs environment did not seem to be one of peers that commit suicide. That is not a reasonable thought. Children go through periods in their life where they need guidance and support, and someone needs to be there to give it to them. It does not have to be a mother or a father, but it would ideal if it were assuming that those people are good role models.
If one chooses not to accept the positive guidance but to make their own decisions, then they could be in trouble. The often listen to their peers guidance and their peers often to not have the tools or experience to guide. When someone with the worldliness and experience is obtainable, the child can make guided decisions.
It is not fair to say that one is all f..ked up because of what could have been a facade on a chat site. It is reasonable, however, to avoid these web sites where kids are talking to people they do not know. We teach them when they are even younger not to talk to strangers, but then we don't press the issue when they are teenagers. Stupid. We think we should give them privacy because they are teenagers. Stupid. Limited privacy sure. But letting them divulge their entire life or facade their-of for the whole world to see and prey upon...Stupid.
I will use any tactic necessary for the duration of my custody of my child and if possible even after he reaches adulthood to do something other than sit it front of a machine like I am doing right now and divulge any information about himself.
He can post at the RX when he is an adult but I would advise against it unless he has some winners for me...JK Just wanted to end on a jovial note.
 

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What sad news this was today. I can't imagine the shock and sadness that Dungy and his family are feeling. Unfortunately, this is probably the kind of thing that they will never fully get over, and it saddens me to think about it. Sure makes that Chargers loss seem like spilled milk. How do you even try to get over something like this? How do you move on and play a football game? How do you care about the playoffs? You don't.
 
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Vaulted Treehouse said:
And Tony didn't have a clue this kid was that messed up...By the way these Myspace things are all the rage. Those of you out there with kids should wake up to the stuff that goes on there.

The kid was in college, he was 18....damn right his father had no idea.

Don't take the site all that seriously--It is "just the internet", and everyone is trying to play Mr. BigDick. Hell, it could have been a big joke about him wondering what it would be like to be a bad ass gangster. It's not like it was his sworn testimony.

But yes, it does seem to fit.
 

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When I was growing up a kid in my school did himself. I knew him and ended up 20 years later working for his dad a year before he retired. Fucked up all their family to this day. He divorced his wife and they both remarried a couple times. Remarkable how selfish it becomes to take your own life.
 

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Vaulted Treehouse said:
And Tony didn't have a clue this kid was that messed up...By the way these Myspace things are all the rage. Those of you out there with kids should wake up to the stuff that goes on there.

What is it?
 
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I could certainly see the parents playing the blame game & going off the deep end. In reality, there are a lot of cases where the parents could not have any idea.

Some kids just don't fit & snap when they go on there own. It happens a lot to college freshman who can't cope\fit\pass.

My parents had no control of me at 16...let alone 18.
 

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