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http://www.boston.com/news/local/articles/2008/07/24/the_anguish_of_foreclosure/

TAUNTON - The housing crunch has caused anguish and anxiety for millions of Americans. For Carlene Balderrama, a 53-year-old wife and mother, the pressure was apparently too much.




Police say that Balderrama fatally shot herself Tuesday afternoon, 90 minutes before her foreclosed home was scheduled to be sold at auction. Chief Raymond O'Berg said that Balderrama faxed a letter to her mortgage company at 2:30 p.m., saying that "by the time they foreclosed on the house today she'd be dead."


The mortgage company notified police, who found her body at 3:30 p.m. The auction had been scheduled to start at 5 p.m., when bidders showed up at the house and found it surrounded by police cruisers.


But, unbeknownst to buyers and to Balderrama, the auction had been postponed by the time she grabbed her husband's high-powered rifle, O'Berg said.


Balderrama left a note for her family, saying they should "take the [life] insurance money and pay for the house," O'Berg said. The chief said he did not know, however, if the family would be able to collect on the policy in the event of a suicide.


Neighbors on Duffy Drive, a forested side street on the city's east side, said Balderrama had lived in the two-story, brown-shingled, raised ranch for about four years with her husband, John, who is a plumber, and their 24-year-old son, who works in a restaurant.


Joe Whitney, who works with Balderrama's husband, said that she handled the bills in the household and that the husband was unaware of the foreclosure.


"John didn't even know about it; that's the surprise," Whitney said outside the home, where he had come to comfort the family. "It's just one of those awful, awful, tragic events."


John Balderrama did, however, file for Chapter 13 bankruptcy three times from 2004 to 2006, but the courts dismissed the petitions. Debtors who declare bankruptcy under Chapter 13 generally can keep their homes while paying off their debts under a court-approved reorganization plan.


As Congress rushed yesterday to help 400,000 strapped homeowners avoid foreclosure and prevent <org idsrc="NYSE" value="FNM;FNM-H">Fannie Mae</org> and <org idsrc="NYSE" value="FRE;FRE-D;FRE-K;FRE-L;FRE-M;FRE-N;FRE-O;FRE-P;FRE-Q;FRE-R">Freddie Mac</org> from collapsing, the suicide underscored the potentially devastating toll of the housing crunch.
Bruce Marks, chief executive of the Neighborhood Assistance Corporation of America, said it is not uncommon for homeowners to contemplate suicide when they cannot keep up their mortgage payments. Marks's group counsels homeowners in crisis and responds to such crises by immediately notifying the police, he said.
"What gets us so angry is that people blame themselves," Marks said. "They can't see past their sense of responsibility to see the responsibility and the predatory nature of these lenders. The fact of the matter is, unless something dramatic happens, there's going to be more and more people like her taking their lives."


Police believe that when the Balderramas bought the house in a stronger market, the family chose an adjustable rate mortgage, confident they would be able to keep up the payments. But as the housing market plummeted and the rates rose, the family fell behind, O'Berg said. The house was listed yesterday on the website of Commonwealth Auction Associates Inc., but the auction, scheduled for Tuesday at 5 p.m., was marked "canceled."
The mortgage company, PHH Corp. of Mount Laurel, N.J., did not respond to requests for comment. Harmon Law Offices PC in Newton, which represents PHH, released a statement saying that because of confidentiality and privacy laws, the firm could not discuss specifics of the foreclosure.
"We're shocked and saddened by what has occurred," the statement said. "Our deepest sympathies go out to the family for the terrible loss it has suffered."


Noreen Mendes said Balderrama never spoke about financial troubles when she saw her neighbor on morning walks. Mendes said she and Balderrama chatted about home repairs and their children.


"I never would have guessed that she had any problems whatsoever," Mendes said. "All I can do this morning is pray and pray and pray."
Whitney said he did not believe that Carlene Balderrama had a history of mental illness.


"It looked like a happy couple," Whitney said. "That's why John was so blown away. Nothing medically ever came up, and I've known them for 20 years."
O'Berg said he was troubled that the pressures of foreclosure had triggered suicide on a street that he described as solidly middle-class.
"That's the real sad part: This is a middle-class family, a husband working, the son is working," O'Berg said. But the housing crunch, he said, "is inflicting real pain on middle-class Americans.


"Put yourself in her shoes," he added. "You handle the finances, and you're hiding everything from family. It's a lot of pressure."
 

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I won't judge her since I did not know her. However I admit part of me thinks she was completely selfish in killing herself. It is such a cowardly way to go out. Either way....

Depending on the laws of her state, she will actually cause more harm to her family than good. Since she clearly committed suicide, the insurance will not pay out for her death. So her family lost a loved one & their house instead of just the house.
 

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I won't judge her since I did not know her. However I admit part of me thinks she was completely selfish in killing herself. It is such a cowardly way to go out. Either way....

Depending on the laws of her state, she will actually cause more harm to her family than good. Since she clearly committed suicide, the insurance will not pay out for her death. So her family lost a loved one & their house instead of just the house.

she committed suicide because there was no way out. US will bail out the big corps, but doesnt care about the average citizen.
 

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she committed suicide because there was no way out. US will bail out the big corps, but doesnt care about the average citizen.

without getting into this debate generally, congress has a number of laws or changed laws recently to help homeowners. They have increased the HFA limits greatly, they have essentially waived the debt forgiveness income on foreclosures, deeds in lieu and short sales and many banks, passed laws increasing the number of notices before foreclosure and some states have put moratoriums on foreclosures.

Further, what evidence do we have that any lender was acting in a predatory nature? Simply b/c someone loses their home/property in a foreclosure doesn't make it the banks fault. Do we have any evidence they could even afford this home?

"What gets us so angry is that people blame themselves," Marks said. "They can't see past their sense of responsibility to see the responsibility and the predatory nature of these lenders. The fact of the matter is, unless something dramatic happens, there's going to be more and more people like her taking their lives."

While this is a sad story for their family, the only piece of information in this article indicates that they bought the home with the expectation residential real estate would continue going up like mad, and they would refinance. Whose fault is it that they took a short term loan on a home they apparently couldn't afford? How is that the bank's fault? Most states are non-recourse on residential real estate, not like she would have been staring at a big tax bill or deficiency judgment on this foreclosure. Stupid and selfish act on her part for something that was no one's fault but her own. No way out from what? She was losing a house she couldn't afford and never should have bought. Move back into the apartment/house you were renting and should have always been renting.

This is what drives me crazy about this situation. People bought homes they couldn't afford. People got 1, 3 and 5 year ARMs, NegAms, Interest Only Loans under a greater fool theory and now they get burned. How is that anyone's fault but their own? ARMs aren't due at the end, they simply adjust, and if you can't afford the adjustment, you shouldn't be in one. If you can't afford your home, you shouldn't buy it. And now Congress bails them out with a massive debt forgiveness waiver. :finger: I have no sympathy for people who couldn't afford their house when they bought it and are now losing it.
 

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The woman was obviously not very smart if she thought life insurance would pay off on a suicide.

We don't have details, she could have been blowing money on coke or something.
 

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If that is what you want to take from my post, go right ahead.
 

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The woman was obviously not very smart if she thought life insurance would pay off on a suicide.

We don't have details, she could have been blowing money on coke or something.


some policies do pay up to 1/2 even in suicide


and some have the two year rule...

Can you collect life insurance benefits after a suicide?

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Most private insurance policies have a two year suicide exclusion period. After that, the policy must pay the benefit regardless of manner of death.
 

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If that is what you want to take from my post, go right ahead.

you said you had no sympathy for them. apparently if you are human and make a mistake in life, fhmesg44 says you should kill yourself for making that mistake.
 

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I said "I have no sympathy for people who couldn't afford their house when they bought it and are now losing it."

That has nothing to do with having sympathy for a family who loses a loved one. The fact that A causes B does not make your twisting of A true.
 

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some policies do pay up to 1/2 even in suicide


and some have the two year rule...

Can you collect life insurance benefits after a suicide?

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Most private insurance policies have a two year suicide exclusion period. After that, the policy must pay the benefit regardless of manner of death.

That's surprising !

There might be some martyr types that will off themselves for the benefit of their families then.
 

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The lenders shouldn't be making loans to people that can't afford it.
 

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I said "I have no sympathy for people who couldn't afford their house when they bought it and are now losing it."

That has nothing to do with having sympathy for a family who loses a loved one. The fact that A causes B does not make your twisting of A true.

even though they were taken advantage of by the lender?
 

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