I never gave an opinion on how good or bad it was moderated. Just that when it is the fox guarding the henhouse it leads to conflicts of interest. While some things are eay to move/remove, others are not so cut and dry.
As for knowing how thankless a job it is, yes you are correct. I have been offered mod jobs myself, but never took them.
But really how difficult is it? It isn't like they are transporting nuclear waste, they are censoring posts on an internet forum for crying out loud, and they are getting paid to do something they have 10s of thousands of examples of that they would do for nothing.
As for the true sexual identity of "identity" I thought that was like "Pat" from the old SNL skits, it has never been truly figured out. Maybe "ambiguity" would be a better name?