The question of rape is an interesting double edged sword. Almost every girlfriend I've ever had would get totally offended if I were to suggest that, when we first had sex, she wanted it just as much as I did. It would be almost like calling her a whore. But if the man wants it more, then the woman is not giving 100% consent, right? And so it falls into the fuzzy zone of possible rape, no? And this is what happens when you do what the woman wants!
So you're damned if you do, and you're damned if you don't. At least in a shitty legal environment like the USA, that is, where the old washed up feminist prudes who finger themselves while dreaming of Kobe Bryant raping them, are the ones who made the laws.