I think the poker site was right for doing what they did. its everyones policy and if you had done the same thing at PP, you would have suffered the same wrath.
with that being said, it was an innocent mistake and pokerroom should eventually resolve this. However, if they dont want to, they dont have to. Just have more patience next time. What is the big deal in waiting 2 weeks before getting the money?
On a side note, i absolutely hate pokerroom. NEver played there, but had tons of problems just trying to sign up once. I decided that if they were that much of a pain when signing up, i can imagine how bad it would be once your money was already with them.