Fella's. My gf who is totally awesome has 3 girls. 11, 10, & 8. All three of em are angels. and for the most part they like me, (even though they're still getting used to me). It's been about 7 months she and I have been together.
At times because of the rocky marriage and the weak household, the girls didn't really have much discipline. Mostly because dad spoiled em while mom tried to keep em in check. Now that she's in the middle of the divorce it seems that the little ones are pushing mom's limits as far as finding out how much they can get away with. Of course I'm a lil confused myself since I don't feel comfortable enough to give em a piece of my mind. At the sametime they're smart enough to know they don't wanna fuck with me because they simply don't know me.
At this point they've gotten to know me well enough to expect hugs from me when they see me, ask when I'm coming over next so we can go to the movies, bowling etc. And as of now they've all given me a "wish list" for x-mas.
Anyway's I wanna give em what they've asked for to give em a cool x-mas. Trust me though, i'm not tryin to win em over by spoilin them. If I did, they'd easily have me by the balls. At times it seems that the girls don't feel any threat when their mom tells em to act up when their bein bad. The youngest one almost feels as if she runs the house and can get away with absolutely anything.
Really been bonding with her the most lately and its been really cool. But I feel like teaching her a lesson by not giving her what she wants for x-mas for the first time in her short life.
As of this point, I'm getting the puppy dog eyes and "Please!, Please!..can I have that X-Box, puppy, etc for x-mas???"
Would it teach her/them a lesson by telling them each that "I'll think about what you girls want for x-mas" then come Christmas day, give em each a lump of coal. Once they start bitchin and cryin I'll tell em to think back the past year and aske themselves whether or not they deserved it after treating mom the way they did for the past year.
Personally I think it'll be a fresh start to the discipline road instead of living a life of spoiled little brats.
Suggestions please.....
btw....don't get me wrong I love these little ones to death and when they aren't bein bad they're absolute angels. Just feel they need some direction and a strong male influence in their life.
At times because of the rocky marriage and the weak household, the girls didn't really have much discipline. Mostly because dad spoiled em while mom tried to keep em in check. Now that she's in the middle of the divorce it seems that the little ones are pushing mom's limits as far as finding out how much they can get away with. Of course I'm a lil confused myself since I don't feel comfortable enough to give em a piece of my mind. At the sametime they're smart enough to know they don't wanna fuck with me because they simply don't know me.
At this point they've gotten to know me well enough to expect hugs from me when they see me, ask when I'm coming over next so we can go to the movies, bowling etc. And as of now they've all given me a "wish list" for x-mas.
Anyway's I wanna give em what they've asked for to give em a cool x-mas. Trust me though, i'm not tryin to win em over by spoilin them. If I did, they'd easily have me by the balls. At times it seems that the girls don't feel any threat when their mom tells em to act up when their bein bad. The youngest one almost feels as if she runs the house and can get away with absolutely anything.
Really been bonding with her the most lately and its been really cool. But I feel like teaching her a lesson by not giving her what she wants for x-mas for the first time in her short life.
As of this point, I'm getting the puppy dog eyes and "Please!, Please!..can I have that X-Box, puppy, etc for x-mas???"
Would it teach her/them a lesson by telling them each that "I'll think about what you girls want for x-mas" then come Christmas day, give em each a lump of coal. Once they start bitchin and cryin I'll tell em to think back the past year and aske themselves whether or not they deserved it after treating mom the way they did for the past year.
Personally I think it'll be a fresh start to the discipline road instead of living a life of spoiled little brats.
Suggestions please.....
btw....don't get me wrong I love these little ones to death and when they aren't bein bad they're absolute angels. Just feel they need some direction and a strong male influence in their life.