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ill try to make this short... was in 6 yr. relationship and in the middle, i cheated on her for about a month. our relationship ended 6 months ago and now i have been on/off dating the girl i cheated with for the last 2 months. she basically ditched a dude she had been dating for a while, in order to hang with me. bout 3 weeks ago, she went crazy and decided she was getting way too involved with me way too early. she then decided to start seeing the dude she broke up with again. *(im still hittin it once a week)

she has really strong feelings for me but we always got bad timing. well, she just calls me and tells me that her step mom in florida was put in icu and is on a ventilator. she wants me to fly with her to ft. myers because she says i am the only one she can imagine being with in tough times like this. here is where the questions come up...

1) besides being a friend, what good does dropping 600 bucks on airfare gonna do me? she has a boyfriend and i hate to see people on their death bed too.(not worth dropping 600 just to fuck her when she is lonely and sad this weekend)

2) if i go, does this mean that she knows that nothing is happening with her current boyfriend and that she fully expects us to be together when we get back? i mean, if she wants me to go, she obviously has more feelings for me than i thought.

3) why doesnt she want her boyfriend to go and do you think she intends to tell him that i went with her to comfort her all weekend?

4)wonder is she knows that asking me this totally fucks me up in the head or if she is trying to take this to the next step. i barely know her family.

im just not in the position to ask her these questions right now. i dont want to sound selfish when the girls stepmom is dying. asking questions will just make her life that much more difficult right now.

i dont mind being a friend to her when she needs one, but we have a weird relationship going as it is. i could handle something more with her and to me, this gives me the idea that this is a big step for her to ask me this. i dont want to look or feel like a chump if we get home and she blows me off again...

thanks guys, i have had 11 heinekens and am no frame of mind to tackle this shit myself tonight.
 

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you're lucky you're hittin something, i couldn't get a fuckin broad if i fuckin paid for it.
 

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typical woman behavior. Go down there if you want to be with her, hit it while your down there and go from there.
 

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Typical transition period for a woman bro. She will get you down there in Florida and start talking about all kinds of LTR stuff. Like when are we moving in together ? your finances ? possibly kids in the future ? When a woman is feeling weak emotionally she always tends to look toward greener pastures in the future. She also might not be really really hurting because this is her step mom and not her real mom so who knows.
 

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shes a slut plain and simple
nothing wrong with that I love sluts. But i dont go visiting sick parents with sluts.
 

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LISTEN KID I AM GOING TO LEVEL WITH YOU I CANT SUGAR COAT IT.THE 600 BUCKS IS SHIT KID SPEND THE 600 GO DOWN TO FLORIDA AND IF HER STEP MOM DIES YOU MIGHT BE IN LINE TO HOOK UP WITH A LOT OF DOUGH.WHAT YOU NEED IS A COPY OF THE STEP MOTHERS WILL WHO KNOWS MAYBE YOUR TRAMP GIRLFRIEND IS GOING TO INHERIT A GOLD MINE AND YOUR CLOSING THE DOOR ON A BIG PAYDAY.PAY THE 600 GO TO FLORIDA FIND OUT HOW MUCH MONEY SHE HAS IF SHE LIVES IN A TRALOR PARK YOUR SCREWED BUT IF SHE HAS SOME CASH YOU MIGHT BE ABLE TO CASH IN.

YOU DONT HAVE TO MARRY HER JUST LOOK AROUND AND SIZE THINGS UP FIND OUT IF HER FAMILY HAS ANY CASH THEN YOU CAN CASH IN JUST DONT BE A F-CKING IDIOT AND GET HER KNOCKED UP THEN YOUR PAYING FOR LIFE.IF YOU DONT WANT TO GO RAYDOG I WILL GO DOWN AND BANG HER AND LOOK THINGS OVER FOR YOU :WTF:

I FEEL LIKE (ANN LANDERS) INSTEAD OF ASK ANN MY NEW NAME IS (ASK BEANTOWN) WILHEIM I AM A SPORTS WRITER NOT A GOD DAM SHRINK.
 

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is she hot?
if so bang her and film it and put it on youporn.
thanks
 

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Get out now! This broad has too many problems. Plenty of chicks out there.
 

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you're lucky you're hittin something, i couldn't get a fuckin broad if i fuckin paid for it.
:lol::lol::lolBIG::lol::lol::lolBIG:

about fell out of my chair on that quote...Classic!!
 

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Go away for the weekend with her, get her to try anal. If its a no go, then dont go no further.
 

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Do no go on this trip. If you do you're doing all the "dirty work" for her boyfriend. This has got "boyfriend's job" written all over it.

Who cares if you go down there and bang her. You're already banging her in your town......thats old news.

She already asked him and he was like fuck that I'm not going to see ur dying family member. Then she asked you afterwards as a fill in. Don't be a puppy dog and fall for this bs. If you go I can bet you'll look back in two years and say "what the fuck was i thinking wasting my weekend and my money on that cum dump."

That is some good advice hoss.
 

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This thread is useless without pics.....

but shootin from the hip.....

you were #2 in the draft. real bf couldnt get the time off work and now your getting the call.

let her go and try to get some from your ex while she is gone.
 

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i passed on going. made up some work shit that i had to do.

beaner, her dad and stepmom own a house in san destin but live here in memphis most of the year. dad is part of an investment group that own a few small islands that are being developed. so yeah, theres plenty of money in the family. thanks for looking after my financial well being though. i can always count on you when it comes to this stuff.

red, she is 5'1 105 with some d's. wont let me near the camera either cus she knows how much i love porn and wouldnt hesitate to put our shit on the web.

she got divorced in november and is really against marriage again. i guess thats why she thinks its okay to date one guy and bang me on the side. im pretty sure that she didnt ask her boy to go with her. i figured that if i went, that meant things reached another level and would probably mean we would be together from here on out. i decided not to go cus i dont really want a girlfriend right now and am happy seeing her once a week or so. ill let the chump cover the dinners and shit for a while longer.
 

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Do no go on this trip. If you do you're doing all the "dirty work" for her boyfriend. This has got "boyfriend's job" written all over it.

Who cares if you go down there and bang her. You're already banging her in your town......thats old news.

She already asked him and he was like fuck that I'm not going to see ur dying family member. Then she asked you afterwards as a fill in. Don't be a puppy dog and fall for this bs. If you go I can bet you'll look back in two years and say "what the fuck was i thinking wasting my weekend and my money on that cum dump."

That is some good advice hoss.

Was going to reply to this thread, but my exact response has already been said. Great post and very true.
 
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Run, quickly

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she dicked around too long romer. (she dropped the other guy completely in hopes that we could start something, but i had already gotten involved with another) we still talk almost daily, but i got tired of being worked by a female who didnt know what she wanted from day to day. i have opted for a different type of punishment... a younger girl with a kid. havent met the kid yet and thats probably why this one is running smooth so far. awfully hard to find a chick 25-35 who doesnt have some sort of baggage (kid, divorced) like we need extra obstacles in this fucked up game
 

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It seems like all the hot broads have a kid. I guess the guys wanted to bang them so bad that they didn't have time to put on a safe.
 

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