tkim11 said:
Dude this ain't the 1950's. When I was growing up the crowd that I kicked it with ranged from all ages. Now I am sure if you grew up in middle suburban america where a 10:00pm curfew was enforced and you had a cul-de-sac forth of July party then you might not be open-minded. In my neighborhood everybody knew each other and looked out for each other. The cool parents let us drink and smoke at their house so we wouldn't be out on the streets getting in trouble. Some kids just mature faster then others. Shit I remember when I was 21 years old and me and my 20 year old girlfriend broke up she later hooked up with some 14 year old boy. I didn't like it but I couldn't be a hater because that 14 year old kid scored some 20 year old *****. I feel in today's society the only thing that separates the teenager party crowd from the adult party crowd is a drivers license and a job. I was drinking 40 ouncers when I was 13 not juice boxes.
What about a 14 year old that looks like she's 18 and looks hot? Is that attractive?
Not once you learn her age
good points Mr J...but the fact remains if SHE is under 14 for example and YOU are over 22 for example or whatever she is off limits....no matter the hotpants or cleavage she has got showing, now is it attractive when some 16yr old is looking hot? , YES I agree but I force myself NOT to look its called morals I guess in my case plus I have a daughter who is almost 14 and she does not wear revealing clothes no sense in sticking out to the pervs that are out there , she understands it
Yes but morals are just a perspective of society. In other societies there would be nothing wrong with this, so it's not that it would be wrong, it's just the way we choose to do things in our society.
The other thing we have to consider is that humans are protective and maternal. In general men won't just leave women with the burden, they'll stay in the picture and provide. In order to do this they will want a suitable mate. In the past or other societies 13 and 30 might be ok, but in our western society this would be unsuitable. We want our young girls to be educated and a productive member of society, not just a baby factory so we protect them so they can fulfil their potential. 13 and 30 are in very different parts of their lives in modern society so it just doesn't work.
So it's not that these guys are being bad or unnatural, they're just making unsuitable decisions in our modern society.
It's not like we need more breeding, 6 billion is more than enough :S
Not once you learn her age
good points Mr J...but the fact remains if SHE is under 14 for example and YOU are over 22 for example or whatever she is off limits....no matter the hotpants or cleavage she has got showing, now is it attractive when some 16yr old is looking hot? , YES I agree but I force myself NOT to look its called morals I guess in my case plus I have a daughter who is almost 14 and she does not wear revealing clothes no sense in sticking out to the pervs that are out there , she understands it
Yes but morals are just a perspective of society. In other societies there would be nothing wrong with this, so it's not that it would be wrong, it's just the way we choose to do things in our society.
The other thing we have to consider is that humans are protective and maternal. In general men won't just leave women with the burden, they'll stay in the picture and provide. In order to do this they will want a suitable mate. In the past or other societies 13 and 30 might be ok, but in our western society this would be unsuitable. We want our young girls to be educated and a productive member of society, not just a baby factory so we protect them so they can fulfil their potential. 13 and 30 are in very different parts of their lives in modern society so it just doesn't work.
So it's not that these guys are being bad or unnatural, they're just making unsuitable decisions in our modern society.
It's not like we need more breeding, 6 billion is more than enough :S
I have to agree with Mr. J. society has changed. I noticed this a lot watching movies and reading books that take place in the early days of America. One book/movie that comes ot mind is Little Women. Those girls are like 14-15 years old and are complaining that no man has asked for their hand in marriage yet. Even in Interview With A Vampire Brad Pitt had a 13 year old Kirsten Dunst as a companion.
Now I believe if society today want to place a chasity belt on females until they get their masters degree then they also need to stop spoon feeding these young girls this type of literature, movies and history books that show this type of behavior was once acceptable in the world.
And last but not least if socity doesn't want older men to be attractive to promiscous teenagers then please don't allow the music and entertainment to biz to promote such acts like a 16 year old Britney Spears and Christina Aguillera and all of that other bubble gum crap. The lyrics and the suggestive dance movies are clearly geared towards to the 40 year old married man with a fat ass lazy good for nothing wife at home.
Now I believe if society today want to place a chasity belt on females until they get their masters degree then they also need to stop spoon feeding these young girls this type of literature, movies and history books that show this type of behavior was once acceptable in the world.
And last but not least if socity doesn't want older men to be attractive to promiscous teenagers then please don't allow the music and entertainment to biz to promote such acts like a 16 year old Britney Spears and Christina Aguillera and all of that other bubble gum crap. The lyrics and the suggestive dance movies are clearly geared towards to the 40 year old married man with a fat ass lazy good for nothing wife at home.
