OT- Can girls have guy friends?

[GameBreaker]

It's much easier for a girl to have a good guy friend that she doesnt want to bang than it is for a guy to have a good girl friend he doesn't want to bang (in most cases this girl is a very large girl).

I don't think girls in general are half as shady as some of the dudes on this forum. I think ya need to relax and trust, but keep your eyes open. You shouldn't control people, no matter who it is.

 

[fhmesq44]

yes, but if the dude is attracted to her (which is usually the case), it will go wrong at some point. If there is no attraction there is no problem. I have 3 good girl friends and there is no attraction with any of them, although, I have hooked up with two of them.

 

[CookieNBabe]

She should have "guy friends", and also should have no complaints with you having some "girl friends".

If she doesnt like that scenario, get married. :missingte

 

[minet123]

nope

 

[xpanda]

At least half of my current friends are guys. It's always been that way for me.

 

[steaktartar]

At least half of my current friends are guys. It's always been that way for me.

i dont mean this to disrespectful actually you can take it as a compliment:thumbsup: but everyone of your guy friends would like to bend you over a chair at the end of an evening a drinking........it's always been that way for us

 

[JohnnyB]

It's way easier for a girl to have a guy friend than it is for a guy to have a girl friend.

Bottom line, it's extremely difficult for either to have an opposite-sex friend that he/she finds attractive. It takes one having to deal with not being with him/her, seeing him/her be with somebody else, and pretty much ACT like a friend despite probably wanting more. Difficult shit.

If there's no attraction, it's no problem. Guys can have good girl friends that they're not attracted to, and vice versa.

That's my take, at least.

This man is wise. Too bad he has a 2 inch penis.

 

[GameBreaker]

i dont mean this to disrespectful actually you can take it as a compliment:thumbsup: but everyone of your guy friends would like to bend you over a chair at the end of an evening a drinking........it's always been that way for us

but, the thing is, that's not the point.

Many chicks know this, but also know how to not act on it.

 

[steaktartar]

but, the thing is, that's not the point.

Many chicks know this, but also know how to not act on it.

i agree but to think your guy friends if you are a girl dont want to bang you is dillusional they all do and all would

 

[steaktartar]

the answer to the question of the thread is of course they can.................but the guy wants to and will fuck them if he gets a chance

 

[xpanda]

From my boyfriend's perspective (and this should apply to the person who started this thread, too) it doesn't matter what my guy friends would or wouldn't want to do, it only matters what I want to do.

 

[steaktartar]

From my boyfriend's perspective (and this should apply to the person who started this thread, too) it doesn't matter what my guy friends would or wouldn't want to do, it only matters what I want to do.

100% true but and im sure you know your guy friends would take a run at you if you wanted to

 

[GameBreaker]

Listen to xpanda. She's a chick. She's attractive. She's got a level head on her shoulders.

If you want to be skeptical and jealous like so many dumb ass guys are, listen to the guys on this forum.

 

[steaktartar]

Listen to xpanda. She's a chick. She's attractive. She's got a level head on her shoulders.

If you want to be skeptical and jealous like so many dumb ass guys are, listen to the guys on this forum.

you are missing my point dumbass...........my wife has guy friends it doesnt bother me..........but MY POINT IS that the guy friends would like to fuck her is all i am saying.... x is correct it is up to her.............i am just pointing the obvious what is the mans head that is the friend

 

[steaktartar]

sorry about the dumbass part gamebreaker

 

[GameBreaker]

steak tartar I think you are confused by what I am posting. Dude I agree with you, trust me. However, I am telling the author of the thread to listen to xpanda because she is spelling it out for him. Trust me, I want to get with a few of my girl friends who aren't half bad, and I know how dudes are, so I don't get where you think I am telling you that you are wrong.

 

[steaktartar]

steak tartar I think you are confused by what I am posting. Dude I agree with you, trust me. However, I am telling the author of the thread to listen to xpanda because she is spelling it out for him. Trust me, I want to get with a few of my girl friends who aren't half bad, and I know how dudes are, so I don't get where you think I am telling you that you are wrong.

could be the fact im doing this already:drink:

 

[sean1]

80+% of people cheat. Over 55% admit it. If your girl has a close guy friend, she has, is, or will bed him.

I probably have 25 or 30 good girl friends. I think I have not hooked up with 2 or 3 of them - and I haven't given up.

Girls like to screw around just as much as guys and if you live somewhere non conservative, they do.

-Sean

 

[kingbill]

Men and women can be friends, it's true most start on the basis of a mutual attraction but Man woman relationships aren't always about sex.

Every relationship in your life gives you something that is of a positive benefit to you or you wouldn't be have that relationship in your life. If you are truly concerned about this new guy coming around, just ask yourself what could she be getting from him that you're not able to give her?

I love the fact that I have a great group of female friends, we flirt relentlessly with each other. It would never lead to anything more than that, I wouldn't want it to. What we give each other, other being great supportive friends, is we build each others social and sexual validation.
Seriously what looks better when you stroll in to a Club "You plus 4 of your horny mouth breathing Friends" or "You and 4 Superhot women on your arms"

Back to this guy, have you met him? Is she cool with you meeting him? Don't show you are rattled by it as Jealousy where there is no need for jealousy is very unsexy to women.

Sorry for the tangent but Yes women can have men friends.

 

[hosnatcher]

HELL NO!!! Only if the guy is gay. The only reason why chicks align themselves with guy friends is because her whorish girlfriends can't stand her anymore. So she flirts and and pretends to be into these poor guys and deems them as friends. All chicks know deep down inside that her guy friends will bang her at any chance so they try to be very careful around them. Of course this only applies if the chick is fuckable. A fat or ugly chick can have as many guy friends as they want because it makes them feel good to interact with a guy in a social setting and maybe she will get a drunk sex night out of them when the guy is sporting the beer goggles.

Now for us guys a chick friendship is the fakest form of friendship in the world. You can be friendly with chicks at work, that you grew up with or just happen to see from time to time at the places you hang out with. But a chick can never be a true friend they don't have the make-up to care about some dude that they aren't sleeping with or would like to sleep with. Chicks will only call you when they need something from you either to cry to you about their problems, money, family, work, self-esteem. But when you need support from your chick friend they can't be sincere.

Lets face it people it is the new millinium and women are the evil ones now. Guys had their bad rap of being dogs, cheaters, wife beaters and liars back in the 80's and 90's. But in the 2000's I hear and see and felt more women do a good man wrong. I think they need to create a new cable station called "Guytime" that shows how heartless a woman is these days. It would make for some intersting made for TV movies.

With all that said I luv my bee-yatches and I can't get enough of em.