Off Topic - Opinion on girls EVERYONE has slept with.....

PatrickMcIrish · Jan 6, 2004

My buddy is seeing one of those girls who has been hit more times than the Rangers pitching staff. Seriously! They call her the walking door knob because everyone gets a turn. LOL. Anyway he wants my opinion on the matter and if that would stop me from settling down with a girl like that. Is he kidding? I am trying to be supportive for my friend so wondering if other guys have learned to overlook the promiscuous girls all guys don't mind hitting but no one wants to be left with. What do I tell him?

Hate to admit it as I probably sound old fashioned but it would suck to be left with a chick EVERYONE who wanted to had banged. Maybe I just have too much pride, maybe it's jealousy? What do you guys think? She seems sweet enough to me but everytime I see her I remember all the other guys who banged her. What should I tell my buddy? Does it matter to you guys? If you like a girl enough can you forget her LLLOOONNGGGG history?

Dante · Jan 6, 2004

Pat nice to see you posting....but I have no opinion sir on your situation

PatrickMcIrish · Jan 6, 2004

Not my situation.......

randyrohm · Jan 6, 2004

I never was attracted to the type girl you want to marry. I have dated many ladies that would like to forget some of there past. I would judge it from the day they "hooked up".

PatrickMcIrish · Jan 6, 2004

Well would it matter to you if your wife had been with 100 men before you Dante? Some may feel LOVE is enough for it not to matter, to me don't think I am big enough to overlook it.

Just being honest.

DarrylParsons · Jan 6, 2004

That's definitely not my type of girl. I don't believe people can change fundamentally without some sort of near-death experience. In other words, once promiscuous, always promiscuous. The reason some guys are attracted to such a girl is that you can never really get her. Maybe it's because it's a challenge and it helps you to be your best. Problem is you're doomed from the start and if you don't realize that despite being told by experienced and intelligent people then you deserve all the crap that comes your way.

If a buddy of mine was thinking of having a long-term relationship with a girl like that I would advise him not to and warn him that I won't be there to listen to all his problems when all the shlt happens that I know is going to happen. Mind you it's no wonder I don't have buddies like that -- they choose friends like PMcI who have enough patience to listen to all kinds of crap even if it gets repetitive.

lander · Jan 6, 2004

Pat,
I'm no expert here, but I don't think people change. She is what she is & IMO it's nothing your friend should seriously try to make long term plans with.

What happens if they fight? She runs out to cope like she's always done by shacking up with the first thing with legs?

I hope I'm wrong.

PatPatriot · Jan 6, 2004

I use to go to this girls apartment when I got fxcked up...she had been hit in the chin with more balls than Yogi Berra,but all I wanted was to get laid or get a bj,all she wanted was aguy....she ended up getting married to this guy long after I had stopped seeing her....and she turned out to be the best wife a guy could ask for.Waits on him hand and foot she works he don't...Every once in a while I think boy did I fxck up...Tell your buddy to give her the old "treat her like shit test and she if she ask for more"...One thing about those type of broads,they don't really have a lot of hang ups.

PatrickMcIrish · Jan 6, 2004

That's sort of my opinion too but wondered if I felt that way cause I'm an old man now. Just curious if some of the younger guys were more open-minded about it all these days. I mean I didn't care about landing a virgin but didn't want to end up with one every guy who wanted her had already banged. I guess some things don't change after all, even the young guys don't want that type still.

Usually these girls who sleep with anything that moves have their own mental problems, low self esteem or something. Whatever it is sounds like the last thing this guy needs. Guess I'll have to talk to this man in the near future and warn him....

PatrickMcIrish · Jan 6, 2004

....she had been hit in the chin with more balls than Yogi Berra...

LMAO!!

BoZZi · Jan 6, 2004

if he marries her or anything look for a divorce within the firs 2-4 months of the marriage...i mean many "good" girls have gone out and cheated on their husbands let alone a bitch like that

max1234 · Jan 6, 2004

What's good for the goose is good for the gander.... if you've been with more than 1 person then why isn't she entitled? That whole double standard bs wears me out. If a guy screws 20 women he's just sowing his wild oats, or is a lady's man. A woman screws 20 men and she's a ho. That's lame. As far as I'm concerned, a woman's history starts when our relationship starts. Anything before that doesn't concern me just as my prior history shouldn't concern her.... just the way I treat her is all I should be judge on.... and vice versa.

PatPatriot · Jan 6, 2004

You don't know if she is a bitch...she might be not that good looking...there are whores but then again there are girls who try to get attention from a guy the only way that works because they might look like somthing you see on an iodine bottle....I can tell you one thing for sure...After a few years of marrige girls that look like Brittnay Spears and Rosie Odonnell kind of even out,they all look the same upsidedown.....Kind of like the Colts last Sunday..they look better than they are,and the Broncos aren't as bad as they look.

Frankie5angels · Jan 6, 2004

Ok Pat how many times did you play hide the salami with her?

PatrickMcIrish · Jan 6, 2004

What you say makes sense Max and it does sound fair I suppose, I just think it's not for me. If I bang 50 chicks my first year in college doesn't mean I am looking for a girl that has done the same. No thanks. We all get our turns at the loose chicks but no one wants to get stuck with them in a relationship!!

Why settle down with a girl that everyone else has taken for a test drive?

PatPatriot · Jan 6, 2004

Frankie...shhhh...I am trying to weasel her phone number now...lol

PatrickMcIrish · Jan 6, 2004

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote">quote:<HR>Originally posted by Frankie5angels:
Ok Pat how many times did you play hide the salami with her?<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

LMFAO!

Why do you think I am trying to talk him out of it. That's the problem, EVERYONE who even looks at this girl bangs her if they want to. Just can't see a good friend of mine settling down with a girl like this.

I know it sounds unfair to the girls but wish he had higher standards.

PatPatriot · Jan 6, 2004

Patty mac...that thing don't wear out...i just wouldn't eat it on the first date...something about tasting the dna of the 7th fleet dosen't appeal to me...but ya never know...ask her to do some shitty favor for you or whoever...like wash your car or somthing..if jumps on it hey those are few and far betwwen

DarrylParsons · Jan 6, 2004

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote">quote:<HR> A woman screws 20 men and she's a ho. That's lame.<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>
Correct me if I'm wrong but I think he's talking about numbers in the 500-1000 range.

dogball · Jan 6, 2004

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote">quote:<HR> to me don't think I am big enough to overlook it.

Just being honest. <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

Precisley the problem, just a matter of insecurity
Dont hold it against her if you got a small knob

Seriously, that was to easy but the real answer lies within your buddies moral / value system. At the end of the day, whats the difference. Ive screwed whores that are tight and unstretched and seen regular girls with wide open lips...

How your buddy feels about himself and his principles is what should answer the question. Sounds like he is insecure though..