Dante, come on now, don't be so naive. How can you make your kids happy if you are not happy yourself.
About being greener on the other side, well, everyone realationship is different, it may be greener for others, and some not.
What it boils down to is your happiness, if you are not happy, then do something to change it. Remember, if you are searching for external things(money, gambling, food, etc...) for happiness, its going to be pretty hard to find happiness.
The worst thing I read here is, stay together for the kids. BULLSHIT. If both husband and wife want it, try and work it out in thearpy. But if you are going to stay together showing no emotion for eachother, and bickering all the time, what kind of traits do you think your offspring will have?
BB
About being greener on the other side, well, everyone realationship is different, it may be greener for others, and some not.
What it boils down to is your happiness, if you are not happy, then do something to change it. Remember, if you are searching for external things(money, gambling, food, etc...) for happiness, its going to be pretty hard to find happiness.
The worst thing I read here is, stay together for the kids. BULLSHIT. If both husband and wife want it, try and work it out in thearpy. But if you are going to stay together showing no emotion for eachother, and bickering all the time, what kind of traits do you think your offspring will have?
BB
Dante said:very good post...exactly on the money....Its not about YOUR happiness anymore when you have Kids its about there's