I'm not Murph but I have a story for you.
I was about 23 and at the gym. I was in the locker room and I was tying my shoes. I look up and there's an old man standing in front of me with his drawers at his ankles. He asks me if I can help him pull his pants up.
Some would, I didn't. I pointed to a worker and said to ask him. I'm not pulling up some old guys dirty pants.