i have a 15 year old daughter . i know its easy to say i would never visit , but if she did what the columbine boys did , i would want nothing to do with her ever again.
i would probably spend the rest of my life trying to figure what the hell i missed or where i went wrong
You're a tougher guy than I am. As my Bro says I'm like french bread, "crusty on the outside, soft in the middle". Guess that's true for more reasons than the obvious ones. I could never turn away from one of mine. Forget? NO! Forgive, YES!!
i think most parents will have a hard time shutting out their children.
but if the parents visit their murder child (monthly, weekly, daily, etc.) and he is a douchebag everytime they go see him/her, then you bet your ass the visits will get less and less