If you ask 100 women out , total strangers, what would be a good positive ratio?

[Journeyman]

I have often wondered how it would be if I just walked up to women and asked them out,lol....Like in the movies, you see the guy he sees the cute girl and presto he's talking to her

Why is it not quite that easy in real life?

What would be a good one liner to even get a conversation going? What kind of return could one expect??? Lets say you ask 100 women that your attracted for a phone number, how many of these strangers will be receptive??? Maybe 5-10? Seriously though if you get 5 out of 100 that your genuinely attracted to , thats not bad...Its just the 95% rejection I'd have to somehow overcome, that could be mentally draining

Inquiring minds wanna know

 

[giorg0s]

-Hey baby are you tired?
-Why?
-Because you were running all the night in my dreams...

 

[PatrickMcIrish]

Lot of variables here Jman on if you get the number.

- What you look like.
- How you carry yourself.
- Her frame of mind.
- How much jack you have.
- How much jack she thinks you have.
- If she is seeing someone.

Etc.....

I agree on the rejection part, I'm bad about it too. I can't stand it. Mother Teresa has more balls than I do when it comes to this stuff. If 99 of 100 would give me the number it wouldn't be worth it for the one who said no. LOL. I'm a bad wingman, I just like to drink on the sidelines and hope one approaches me.

 

[FunkSoulBrother]

Now granted this was high school, but I have a little story about asking out 100 women.

In my junior year of high school I won a contest entry on the local radio station. It was an invitation for two to a kissing contest. It was an endurance contest, the rules were simple: The last couple left standing won tickets for 2 to Orlando, along with hotel rooms and park tickets and spending cash. A pretty good prize, especially for some high school kids.

The contest was scheduled for Valentine's Day. Now they had been giving out these entries since February 1st, and I won on the night of February 12th, leaving me one school day (the 13th) to find a girl who would not just talk to me, but kiss me all day in an endurance contest.

Boys I tell you I was rejected by 73 girls that day.

I started off asking good friends to do it, then moved on to cute girls I didn't know in the hallway. Then I moved on to the not-so-cute girls. And so on. And on. If it weren't for one girl who swore she would have done it had she not had a track meet that weekend (and gave me one hell of a kiss to prove it) that Friday would have been a total loss.

 

[Journeyman]

So FSB , you didn't get someone to join you? You didn't finish?

 

[soccerbob]

Journey- As Patrick said, there are some variables in there that will affect how you do. I'm happy with 5% to 10%. Of course that's misleading because I have one very huge requirement that a woman must possess. She has to be breathing. That's the only real must. Everything else is a bonus.

I meet a lot of women on my job. That's always good because at least they know you're working and you won't get mad if they want to supersize their #1 meal if you take them to McDonalds. The grocery store has been very fertile ground lately. Just pick up one of those "bachelor baskets" and walk around and toss a few things in it.

But the way to go is using the internet. It's much easier to take rejection on your computer screen. There are tons of sites out there where women are just looking for a "sex buddy". Recently I went on one of those sites where you buy receipts and write to people that way. I bought 25 receipts for $39.95. I got rejected 21 times and met 4 women. Two went nowhere and I scored the other two times. One was a one nighter and the other has been a nice, occasional "booty call". I would say that $39.95 was excellent value.

 

[Journeyman]

True but say you have above average looks and are built rather well

Pat, you are speaking as if there is no Mrs. McIrish

Even relating this to business, its all about numbers really....I get a 3% return on my advertisements, sometimes as high as 15%, but each day my confidence is down until I get that 3-5%....Same as females, probably even worse , for one I think I'd have to have 2-3 beers in me, wear shades

and even then it might be tough...The only times I can walk up to total strangers is out in a bar/club setting, even then its not easy....I would love to master this , I really would love to master this...In reality the 95% say no, so what it shouldn't matter....But it does

 

[FunkSoulBrother]

Journey, nope, not a single girl wanted to kiss me all day one day after meeting me.

I have hope that had I just been asking for a regular date I would have had better reception.

That said, it turned out to be for the best.. you see, the Radio station hosting the contest had a Hotel Convention Room rented out for it. It started out at 8am and around 10pm at night 3 couples were still kissing.
The radio guys realized that they didn't want to be there, and that they were running up a bill with the hotel. Thus they ended the contest prematurely, and made the remaining couples draw out of a hat for the 1st 2nd and 3rd prizes. That means that some poor schmucks stood there all day kissing for a 3rd place prize which was a CD. A CD! 2nd was something shitty too like a $100 gift certificate.



...Of course now that I think of it, in my junior year of high school I would have gladly kissed a (hot) chick all day for a CD.

 

[Fishhead]

Unlike in sportsbetting, the losses dont count against you. Keep firing away!! You need to get your at-bats in!!

 

[Journeyman]

You guys might laugh your asses off here....but I have actually written notes and left them on cars

And it works! The key to this working though, is they have to have some idea who you were in the first place....Now if I could find enough to leave notes for,lol....I have actually met over 10 maybe 15 girls this way...and some have led to a little SCHNICK SCNACK

 

[FunkSoulBrother]

Where do you do this, Journey?

 

[Journeyman]

Oh man Funk a CD , thats weak!

 

[2times]

Soccerbob,

How about giving me the site name. I am desperate need of a **** buddy

 

[Journeyman]

Funk I have done this through the years man,lol....A few examples , one I use to work for Fed Ex this was about 10 years ago...I would do a route see a cute girl at the business I was delivering to , eventually see their vehicle and leave my notes lmao!!!!

The most succesful one was at a grocery store, she was looking for some meat,lol....Actually we were both waiting at the deli...When I left she was leaving too, I noticed she pulled in the street before mine....Later that night I put a note on her SUV....Heres the funny part, she emails me telling me she's involved, thanked me and that was that...So from time to time I would email her, and eventually we started talking on Ims...a COUPLE MONTHS LATER SHE WANTED TO MOVE IN WITH ME....

Golly the more I think about it, I have met quite a few this way,lol...DiD I just say Golly, WTF I am Beaver Clever....

 

[FunkSoulBrother]

Looking for some meat I bet!

 

[soccerbob]

2times- It's www.dreammates.com

Now make sure you post your profile in the correct section. There is a "dating" section. That one is allright to post your profile in but stay away from the "long term relationship" category.

You want to put your profile in the "intimate" or "booty call" area. I can't remember exactly what it is called but you'll know right away. Remember, quantity is quality.

 

[Journeyman]

She did get some , it just took over a year for me to cash that one in

The down side to leaving a note, and this has happened to me too...IF you have to go back and see the person and she didn't respond or she's married , you have to pretend its not you

 

[Waterproof]

Dating is a contact sport, the more you contact, the better you'll do. Sometimes to get you're confidence up, all ya need to do is talk to more girls. Even about stupid things, like asking em a question and then walking away. This'll help ya get over your fear of rejection and contact, and just like dogs, women can smell fear.
Theres no need to use the internet to pick up some hottie that ends up being a man. Just go out, walk up to a girl and start talking... It takes practise, but practise pays off in BJs.

 

[Journeyman]

Welcome in Waterproof, it took a dating issue to get this man in here...Good to get alot of opinions

 

[Journeyman]

Practice pays off in BJ's