Vlad,
I’ve probably hired & fired 50 people in the last half dozen years (and I went to business school) so I’m happy to share some thoughts.
First, let me say that the short answer to your question is: not like this. I’ll explain.
Also, why are you looking for a job? Write down the reasons, it will help.
So how did you get to a 40% increase? That will be the 1[SUP]st[/SUP] question (if the other side knows what they are doing) when you propose it. Is 40% more comparable to the position in the market? Further, any successful negotiation requires that you take the time to put yourself in the other party’s position. Think about it, the equivalent of what you are suggesting is walking on to a car lot and finding a car with a sticker price of $50,000 and telling the salesman you will pay $30,000. How do you think that will be received? Will you be treated seriously? Tread carefully here and keep in mind that since you will be working for this manager, you want the other side to walk out of the negotiation satisfied. One other point on this, most companies post jobs based on a job grade (e.g. “65”) and the posted salary is often at the mid-point of that grade. What you are asking for is outside of the job grade, without a doubt.
What you are doing is positional bargaining (“you say $50” I say $100!”) and it is a proven loser. The people who research this stuff have found that positional bargaining often leads to bad outcomes as you become emotionally attached to your position (this is human nature) and any concession you make feels as if you are losing pride. Most negotiations masquerade as fixed-pie situations because people are negotiating about a single issue, usually price. Expand the issues on the table by coming up with a list of issues that are important to you and negotiate looking for joint gains.
Examples here would be: Location (if applicable), Paid Time off/sick, Retirement contributions/equity, salary and bonuses. Identify the priorities then be prepared to make concessions on issues that are least important to you. So what you may do here is say: “I’ve reviewed your offer and I am looking for a salary that is 10% above what you have offered. Also, since I am extending my commute, I would like to have an additional 3 days of vacation per year” - if that is the stuff that is important to you. You can make up the salary by asking for a bonus or an extra % contribution in the retirement plan.
My advice:
-Be firm but flexible (not a “hard bargainer”)
-Be precise. Don’t say “I’m looking for around $90,000” Say: “I’m looking for $91,000 per year as this is market value for my experience” Research on negotiations shows there is value of being precise
- Emphasize how your concessions benefit your counterpart
Finally, Let me say that if I offered someone I did not know a job and their response was to asking for 40% more, I would not take them seriously nor would I hire them. Take that for what it is worth.
Good luck.