been married 20+ yrs. It's all good, I do my thing she does here thing. Hardly ever fight, if we do it's about which kid gets more than the other.
I will say this, don't let the petty shit or your ego get in the way of things and you'll be just fine. That is if she isn't a domineering bitch on wheels. Then all bets are off.:nohead:
bol in your endeavors.
I will say this, don't let the petty shit or your ego get in the way of things and you'll be just fine. That is if she isn't a domineering bitch on wheels. Then all bets are off.:nohead:
bol in your endeavors.
The odds aren't good. Close to a coin-flip that you don't get divorced, but how many married people are separated or wished they weren't married? Whether it is +ev or not depends on whether the benefits outweight the risks. The biggest problem is that you are overbetting when you get married. You're basically betting your emotional and financial stability on a coinflip. Hardly matters if you're in love though.
hno:.Been There TWICE !! The First was a Horror Show !! IMO
I have been with Wife # 2 now for 11 years. She is as Cool as then come.
Sure with get into a few small Fights, but that's Normal.
Sometimes you need to let out a little Steam. But Nothing, and I Mean NOTHING like I had with Wife # 1
I made a Big Mistake with Wife # 1, Married a Girl with THREE KIDS !!
Want to talk about Fighting ?? :smoking:
I have been with Wife # 2 now for 11 years. She is as Cool as then come.
Sure with get into a few small Fights, but that's Normal.
Sometimes you need to let out a little Steam. But Nothing, and I Mean NOTHING like I had with Wife # 1
I made a Big Mistake with Wife # 1, Married a Girl with THREE KIDS !!
Want to talk about Fighting ?? :smoking:
Most marriages dont last because its most people get married for the wrong reason, most marry people they think they should want to marry due to insecurity and co-dependency issues, if you can eliminate those issues and not let control dramas control your life and marriage then you actually have a good shot at a successfull marriage.
Marriage is just so tough, I don't know how people do it. I have been with many many girls and can't ever imagine getting married except for one reason -kids. I can not wait to have kids, so I am going to look for a woman that is good looking but most importantly going to be a good mother to my children. I can't imagine how great it would be to have your own child and I am not going to pass that up because I bang every hot chick that looks my way. Some day when I am stable and I am ready for kids, I will find my wife.
