Don't ever be happy for a friend that gets married

[Seymour]

In essence - you are losing that friend - as time passes they just get barrelled in - never leave their house - never do shit - every year my high school friends used to get together - it's been a year and nothing - they've got more excuses than Pacman Jones - we were supposed to be going to Jacu Beach and now it's unraveling - the most annoying thing is I have a window of opportunity to speak to them - around 5:45 - 6:00 pm as they are driving home - after than I might as well be a creditor calling

 

[Seymour]

I understand they've got their own hectic lives - but all I'm asking for them is 3-4 days a year - they've got the money - it's just about putting forth some effort.

 

[nhoj]

Always nice when they let u bang there wfe.

 

[HinesWard86]

Eff that. One of the reasons I never plan on getting married.

 

[Seymour]

Eff that. One of the reasons I never plan on getting married.

How old are you?

 

[HinesWard86]

How old are you?

23, but I seriously won't. My job won't allow it.

 

[Seymour]

Eff that. One of the reasons I never plan on getting married.

Here's another good reason - this girls married - you can probably get the theme from her response to me
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January 12 at 6:19pm

I expect to hear from you within 14 days... As for the pix I'm no fool sending naked pix over the internet. We could have phone sex though...
Sent via Facebook Mobile

 

[HinesWard86]

Absolutely, that's another reason. I've fucked a married girl before and I felt bad for the guy afterwards. She told me I was the 4th or 5th guy she's cheated on him with. Fucking terrible.

 

[Seymour]

23, but I seriously won't. My job won't allow it.

At 23 you just can't objectively say that

 

[HinesWard86]

At 23 you just can't objectively say that

Absolutely. If I get the job that I am gunning for (and I should), it's impossible to have a family. That profession has the second highest divorce rate and I've already been told that marriages and families just don't work with all the travelling. I've already accepted it. Before making the decision to go this route I asked if it was worth it and I believe it is.

 

[Seymour]

What type of job?

 

[HinesWard86]

Foreign Service Officer

The government moves you around so much that it's impossible to have a family. Even if I really wanted one, it would be totally unfair to ask them to move to a completely different country every few years

 

[Seymour]

I would imagine you'll meet a girl someday and you'll make things work out - you'll see.

 

[Matt24]

my best friend disapeeredwhen he started dating his wife, he was as wild as they come now all he does is call and ask me to go to church. I'm getting married in sept but I'll still hang out wtih friends, its too much fun. whats life if you dont have your friends.

 

[Seymour]

my best friend disapeeredwhen he started dating his wife, he was as wild as they come now all he does is call and ask me to go to church. I'm getting married in sept but I'll still hang out wtih friends, its too much fun. whats life if you dont have your friends.

Your family becomes your life.

 

[STACKSONDECK]

its a fucking shame. you gotta be able to train your girl thats all. lol fuck that i still want to have fun and its not the same going out with your girl and your friends.

 

[VIEJODINOSAUR]

You will have a new set of friends to replace the old ones when you tie the knot...first year might be OK, but after that, forget it...

 

[whalewager]

Seymour.

Maybe they just don't like you.

 

[tkim11]

my best friend disapeeredwhen he started dating his wife...

Aint this the damn truth. Same thing with my best friend. We've been best friends since we were in 3rd grade We're both 28 now and he has a serious g/f. I fucken hate the bitch with a passion but dont show it around him because I respect him. I dont think she even knows that I hate her - not that I treat her like shit. I let him know the girl is not right for him but I guess love is blind.

 

[MONDOGECKO]

I don't understand how you cud want to hang out with one person all day everyday. I dont even wanna hang out with myself all the time.