example, my mother in law may have some land she is willing to sell to me and my wife (her daughter) for about 100,000. she could get much more on the open market. should i say "sold" i'll take it, or should i make an offer of a bit less because it is her daughter we are talking about and she would probably take less cause its for her, or is this not proper etiquette in this family matter? i have a great relationship with the entire family, and they are well to do and dont need the money, yet i dont expect them to give us the land either. just not sure how to handle the situation at the moment.