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My wife's brother is getting married next April and asked me to be the best man over the weekend. I'm honored and accepted happily. However, the wife and I got married in a courthouse because we wanted the $10k for our house and travel and such. So I'm not sure what this all entails. Two questions for my Rx brethren:

1. Throw some ideas out for an awesome bachelor party

2. What other cool things should the best man handle?

Looking for probably 10-15 at the bachelor party.
 

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Depends upon the guy. My bachelor party was great. Had friends from all over, so Myrtle Beach was a central place all could get to. Had a friend there that set up all the golf. Had a house in the beach that comfortably accommodated 25 people. We grilled and drank and played cards. We also had a sweet VIP room setup at two of the strip joints and a couple limos to take us to and from.
 

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Hookers are already ordered - Craigslist has it covered.

Yeah, we talked about it on Saturday. I threw out Vegas, golfing/sporting event in Denver, lake house/fancy camping type of weekend. He is basically up for anything. Just wants a good experience.
 

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sounds like a it could be fun puff_>> .. when are we to expect invitation?


-murph
 

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must show pics...when it happens.....or it didn't happen...(<)<

have fun
 

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wow, a whole weekend.....if money is no object then fly to vegas is the answer. then find sharky, he is a bachelor party expert...he does about 10-15 annually
 

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ask what friends he absolutely wants to attend, b/c that will influence location. Vegas means you're probably losing some attendees due to cost, family obligations, etc.

Have a friend who wanted his bachelor party in Vegas and as a result basically no one is going, maybe 5-6 people max. Tradeoffs....

100% agree here.. with traveling involved, especially the amount of money needed to prepare for vegas it will completely take the 15 person bash down to a handful if lucky. People will bail all the way down til the flight leaves.. my brother in law's was in vegas and it happened to him.

-murph
 

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ask what friends he absolutely wants to attend, b/c that will influence location. Vegas means you're probably losing some attendees due to cost, family obligations, etc.

Have a friend who wanted his bachelor party in Vegas and as a result basically no one is going, maybe 5-6 people max. Tradeoffs....
yup, that's why mine wasn't in Vegas...was gonna be like 6 people...I wanted everyone to come and hang
 

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Depends upon the guy. My bachelor party was great. Had friends from all over, so Myrtle Beach was a central place all could get to. Had a friend there that set up all the golf. Had a house in the beach that comfortably accommodated 25 people. We grilled and drank and played cards. We also had a sweet VIP room setup at two of the strip joints and a couple limos to take us to and from.



lol...i did the samething....
 

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keep it local if u can. go golfing during the day, maybe have some private strippers or craiglist type escorts come over and put on a show. then take a party bus out on the town for the night. hit up bars/strip clubs and get back home around 3am. make a day out of it
 
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I would be cautious when using craigslist for the entertainment. Quality may be low. I would suggest going to the strip club and using some girls from there. Will be more costly, but will be higher quality. I remember a party we had and one of the girls showed up with a fresh c-section scar and I mean FRESH!

If going local, limo bus with the strippers on it is the way to go. I have been on 3 of them that had this feature and they were the best!
 
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oh, also, plan on paying for at least 90% of it. At least that is my experience, your brother in law may have better friends than what mine did though.....
 

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