J$$$: Two areas in which to choose. The Boardwalk which has numerous joints from top to bottom. Newer places like Caesar's, Trump Taj and Bally's. All have nice health clubs for steams, massages and the like. There is also low-end barns like Resorts, Claridge and Sands which cater to a different crowd.
The other option is going a couple miles out to Brigantine Island where Harrah's, Trump Marina and the brand new Borgata which is drawing all the nouveau riche and el' touristo's from all-around.
Comp's are easy as cake and if your playing anywhere near strong action, the casino hosts will shine your horn and get you just about anything you want.
Bottom line IMO: Best old joint............Resorts.
Best new joint.............. Borgata.
Just remember, never play for comps, they throw them at you in AC. Lets face it, when it's all said and done, you'd be happy playing in a toilet as long as your winning.
BTW................If all else fails, head toward The Tropicana and look for a place called Sun Gold. Put it this way, it's the best place in that town to relieve the pressures of the day.