happened to my dad, although there were extinuating circumstances....him and his one brother and one sister, the other 5 were left in...caused a huge rift in the family, kinda divided them as the 3 felt that one of the others for sure talked my grandpa into it....and funny thing was, 2 of the 3 that were cut out, (my dad and his sis) were the 2 that did the most for grandpa.....others swore they had nothing to do with it....but it still left a huge rift in the family.......my dad ended up forgetting about it (wasnt huge amounts anyway) and he made his peace, but his brother would never forgive....
When my father died, the brother went to courthouse and had restraining orders put on the other 5 saying they couldnt come to the funeral home, or on the property, even though i was the one paying for the funeral and was the one in charge.....I had calls coming in from aunts and uncles the day before the funeral saying restraining orders were delivered by the sherriff to their homes, etc....all i needed when going through a funeral.....finally had to call our friend who owned the funeral home and tell him what was going on, luckily it was a small town and he was a family friend for many, many years, and he said "he cant do that, u make all the decisions, if u want them here , he cant do that" so we had to call him and tell him that HE WOULD NOT BE ALLOWED there if he was gonna cause trouble, etc....and that a sheriff would be on the property to escort him off if he tried to enforce the orders, etc.....a real clusterfuck.....luckily all went off without a hitch, and now all the others are back together getting along, except for the one brother, he is still basically left out due to his odd behavior...
Now for the kicker....and all this is 100% true (it could be an episode of Desp Housewives)...the uncle that is estranged, and who i would prefer to have NO CONTACT with, is married to my mother's sister, so i am related twice to him......100% true
When my father died, the brother went to courthouse and had restraining orders put on the other 5 saying they couldnt come to the funeral home, or on the property, even though i was the one paying for the funeral and was the one in charge.....I had calls coming in from aunts and uncles the day before the funeral saying restraining orders were delivered by the sherriff to their homes, etc....all i needed when going through a funeral.....finally had to call our friend who owned the funeral home and tell him what was going on, luckily it was a small town and he was a family friend for many, many years, and he said "he cant do that, u make all the decisions, if u want them here , he cant do that" so we had to call him and tell him that HE WOULD NOT BE ALLOWED there if he was gonna cause trouble, etc....and that a sheriff would be on the property to escort him off if he tried to enforce the orders, etc.....a real clusterfuck.....luckily all went off without a hitch, and now all the others are back together getting along, except for the one brother, he is still basically left out due to his odd behavior...
Now for the kicker....and all this is 100% true (it could be an episode of Desp Housewives)...the uncle that is estranged, and who i would prefer to have NO CONTACT with, is married to my mother's sister, so i am related twice to him......100% true
ya, he had cancer so i put my life on hold for him to move in and help out. meanwhile my pregnant gf needed me too as there was one night that she had to go to hospital and i wasnt there for her. well he recently got news that he was prob going to beat it so i told him that i was gonna move in with her as shes in her last trimester and having complications. i figured it was ok because hes getting better and plus she only lives 2 minutes from his house. well he blew a gasket telling me that i showed my true colors and that im no son of his and how i chose her over him. I did feel guilty but he was always bad mouthing her when i lived with him, talking about he would put a bullet in her if she ever came by the house and he even went as far as saying he hopes my unborn baby drops dead in pieces on the delivery table. well, that was it, cancer or no cancer i had to roll. its not like i was never going to see him just because i moved out, but because he hates her he basically told me it was him or her. ive tried talking to him but he wont answer the phone, i even wrote a letter to him but no response. my other brother, the one who isnt getting cut out, told me my father basically says he only has one son now. it sux cuz im gonna lose about 500k.
no offense Brad, but not sure i would want the money from a man who would wish death on my unborn child...money isnt everything, and it sounds as if that ill gotten gain comes with some real bad karma.......you might be better off without it....and having a healthy happy family...
[and funny thing was, 2 of the 3 that were cut out, (my dad and his sis) were the 2 that did the most for grandpa.....
thats whats going on here. me and my other brother who is getting cut out moved in to be with him while the one who never moved in at all , just continued to party and basically not give a shit. now hes getting all the money. This guys a rotten, evil man. he used to beat the hell out of us all the time, he even made one of my brothers eat cat vomit when he was a younger boy. now to find out , i'm getting cut out after going through all that physical and now verbal abuse about my kid and gf, just kinda sux. felt like i definitely deserved that money. this guy even had me sign over about 30,000 in bonds that were in my name ,that he gave me as a child , over to him to invest for me, and now i find out hes been dipping into that money for yrs and i havent received a tax return check because of it. hes going to take that money as well. this man is a true scumbag
thats whats going on here. me and my other brother who is getting cut out moved in to be with him while the one who never moved in at all , just continued to party and basically not give a shit. now hes getting all the money. This guys a rotten, evil man. he used to beat the hell out of us all the time, he even made one of my brothers eat cat vomit when he was a younger boy. now to find out , i'm getting cut out after going through all that physical and now verbal abuse about my kid and gf, just kinda sux. felt like i definitely deserved that money. this guy even had me sign over about 30,000 in bonds that were in my name ,that he gave me as a child , over to him to invest for me, and now i find out hes been dipping into that money for yrs and i havent received a tax return check because of it. hes going to take that money as well. this man is a true scumbag
exactly what im kind of thinking now, money only causes problems as i KNOW i would be tempted to have some fun if i had that money. kinda like an actor who all of a sudden becomes famous wanting to sample some of life's goodies and leaving his fam behind. thats pretty much what happened to my pops. he got his inheritance and basically just banged strippers and whores his whole life and never settled down as he had the money to afford all these flings. now , none of his kids can stand him and everyone he knows or comes into contact with, do not like him as well. he treats waiters like crap all because he thinks hes better then them.
Sad story but you seem to be the better man. You can't control what other people do or how they act. He may or may not wise up to his actions but you shouldn't let it concern you since you are starting a family of your own. They come first.
Unacceptable he would say that about your baby and gf though.
Unacceptable he would say that about your baby and gf though.
I can relate to this story quite a bit. My dad has used his will as leverage over my brothers and sisters for years. I'm the youngest of the family so I saw it many times that his will was changed.
I couldn't give a shit about his money and when he decided to treat my mom like crap he knew right where he can stick his stupidity. We haven't spoke for about 2 years now and I have no clue where he even is.
I couldn't give a shit about his money and when he decided to treat my mom like crap he knew right where he can stick his stupidity. We haven't spoke for about 2 years now and I have no clue where he even is.
My father was hoodwinked by a demon lawyer. He thought he was leaving his kids everything he owned but the will they had him sign was illegal..and they knew it.
His will was 8 pages long when he died of cancer in 01. When they rewrote the will to bring it up to state law requirements it was 37 pages long and all 4 kids got right next to nothing and his wife and the lawyers got everything else....
I exposed the whole scam to the Judge handling the case and the very next day it was finalized with the signature of another Judge.... We were robbed of over 2.5 million dollars in property by this law firm and the corrupt Louisiana court system...
The exact same laws were used to rob my ex-wife of her share in an estate valued at well over 5 million dollars...Her grandmother named her lawyer as Trustee. In Louisiana the trustee can do anything they want...She inherited it at 14 yrs old but couldnt get it till she was 21. In those 7 yrs the Trustee paid himself exactly whatever the profit was for that year (it was a huge rice farming operation that had acreage planted in 3 different parishes (counties to u guys) . In the year before she turned 21 he sold everything, land, eqiup, the whole 9 yards and when she made 21 she got less than 7 acres of land and less than $10k total...we had to sell the land just to pay HER attorney.
Then there is the story of my step-father who lost 1.5 million playing slots then willed that 1.5 million to his kids...How can u will something u dont own? Good question and its been 3 years now and my mother who worked for over 35 years to build a retirement now lives off SSI as his kids have had it tied up in court ever since insisting that the 1.5 million is there and my mother wont give it to them. All her assets are frozen until this is resolved.....which with our luck will be the day after Obama passes a 90% death tax........
His will was 8 pages long when he died of cancer in 01. When they rewrote the will to bring it up to state law requirements it was 37 pages long and all 4 kids got right next to nothing and his wife and the lawyers got everything else....
I exposed the whole scam to the Judge handling the case and the very next day it was finalized with the signature of another Judge.... We were robbed of over 2.5 million dollars in property by this law firm and the corrupt Louisiana court system...
The exact same laws were used to rob my ex-wife of her share in an estate valued at well over 5 million dollars...Her grandmother named her lawyer as Trustee. In Louisiana the trustee can do anything they want...She inherited it at 14 yrs old but couldnt get it till she was 21. In those 7 yrs the Trustee paid himself exactly whatever the profit was for that year (it was a huge rice farming operation that had acreage planted in 3 different parishes (counties to u guys) . In the year before she turned 21 he sold everything, land, eqiup, the whole 9 yards and when she made 21 she got less than 7 acres of land and less than $10k total...we had to sell the land just to pay HER attorney.
Then there is the story of my step-father who lost 1.5 million playing slots then willed that 1.5 million to his kids...How can u will something u dont own? Good question and its been 3 years now and my mother who worked for over 35 years to build a retirement now lives off SSI as his kids have had it tied up in court ever since insisting that the 1.5 million is there and my mother wont give it to them. All her assets are frozen until this is resolved.....which with our luck will be the day after Obama passes a 90% death tax........
now what exactly is a death tax? ive heard this before and obviously cant ask my dad what it is. since me and my one brother are getting cut out, the other one stands to inherit about 1.5 mil, with this tax, is that not the case? he also has a 600,000 life ins policy through usaa that was SUPPOSED to go evenly to all 3 of us. he pays like 2500 on it every year. can he change the beneficiary on that policy as well? even thought it comes out of my stocks? he pays it out of the bradley davis trust fund each yr which is my name.
