Shub, this gentleman speaks the truth. He has also offered to help as best he can, a very kind gesture. Take him up on it.
You can still live a quality life being insulin dependent. You have SIGNIFICANT control of disease expression don't doubt this. Your body is losing its battle with blood sugar control. The meds you were taking do not cure the problem and neither will the insulin you need to take. Help your body heal itself, don't underestimate its ability to heal. Heal it with movement (exercise) , heal it with food (anti-inflammatory diet). You WILL see changes. Can only speak in generalizations, you may find the following useful;
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3981696/
what this study tells us is that sadly the diet recommendations by the American Diabetes Association to help diabetics get better were wrong.
as a gross quick summary (the study link is above) :
group of people on a RESTRICTED caloric diet , high carbs, LOW fat (as per the US Dietary guidelines and echoed by the American Diabetes Association). The other group had a NON-restricted caloric diet but LOW carbs, high fat diet; goal to get into a ketogenic state (let the body run on ketones, not glucose, if you will)
results:
ADA group - lost on average 5.7 lbs. and 15% of participants were able to decrease dosage of diabetic meds
ketogenic diet- lost on average 12.1 lbs and 64% were able to reduce their dosage of diabetic meds
This is not an isolated study.
as a side, diabetes and periodontal disease (dental gum disease) have a strong association (neither is causal, no evidence for). This isn't surprising as a characteristic of both is inflammation. So if you have gum disease make sure that you get proper treatment for it, it will be helpful in the management of your diabetes.
consider googling Dr Mark Hyman. Read his book . He runs a Functional Medicine clinic in Ohio.
lots of healthy ,happy people that are insulin dependent diabetic . Bobby Clarke played in the NHL for 15 years ; a 3-time Hart trophy winner , a Stanley Cup Champion and Hall of Famer . He was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes , requiring insulin, at 12 yrs old. He's now 66 years young...
gl to you