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Dating Tip: The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably Make With Women- And What To Do About It...


Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women - And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes...



1) Being Too Much Of A "Nice" Guy



Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to "nice" guys?


Of course you have.


Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks"... but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.


What's going on here?


It's actually very simple.


Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.


And guess what?


Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION. And being nice doesn't make a woman choose you.


I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, but get over it.


Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on
it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that you want.



2) Trying To "Convince" Her To Like You


What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like... but she's just not interested?


Right!


They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.


Well, I have news for you...


YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!


Never, ever, ever.


You cannot convince a woman to feel ifferently about you with "logic and reasoning".


Think about it.


If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that by being "reasonable" with her?


But we all do it.


When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.


Bad idea. Another one that will never work.



3) Looking For Her Approval Or Permission


In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to
get a woman's "approval" or "permission".


Another HORRIBLE idea.


Women are never attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them... EVER.


Don't get me wrong here. You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you. But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and permission for things", think again.


You will never succeed by looking for approval.



4) Trying To Buy Affection With Food And Gifts


How many times have you take a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her even HALF as well as you did?


If you're like me, then you've had it happen a lot.


Well guess what? It's only natural when this happens...


When you do these things, you send a clear message: "I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection".


Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation.



5) Sharing How You "Feel" Too Early With Her


Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they "feel" too early on.


Attractive women are rare.


They get a LOT of attention from men.


Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another all the time by men.


An attractive woman is often approached several times a day by men who are interested. This translate into dozens of times per week, and often hundreds of times per month.


And guess what?


Attractive women have usually dated a lot of men. That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.


They know what to expect.


And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you"
after one or two dates.


This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast... and can't control themselves. Don't do it. Lean back. Relax. There's a much better way...



6) Not "Getting" How Attraction Works For Her


Women are different from men.


You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.


When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.


But does the same apply for women?


Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?


Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks.


Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around? Think about it.


Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men... and they're attracted to the way a man makes them feel than they are to looks alone.


If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.


But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this.


And ANY guy can learn how...



7) Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks


One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started... because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have
looks and money... or guys who are a certain height... or guys who are a certain age.


And sure, there are women who are only interested in these things.


But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks. There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet...


And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.


8) Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women


Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission.


Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women.


Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants.


Another bad idea...


Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over. Women aren't attracted to Wussies!



9) Not Knowing What To Do In Each Type Of Situation


A woman always knows what you're thinking.


I know, it might be hard to believe. But if you're out on a date with a woman, and you want
to kiss her, she knows it.


And if you don't know HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help!


And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating...


Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical... everything.


If you don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up... and LOSE EVERYTHING.



10) Not Getting Help


This is the biggest mistake of all.


This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of success with women that they truly want.


I know, guys don't like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help.


Hey, I've been there myself.


Let me tell you a little about me. About five years ago I became fed up with the fact that I didn't know how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was attracted to.


It frustrated the hell out of me.


One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn't get up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that night... I made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be
successful with women and dating.


Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally figured it all out. I can now approach just about any woman and get her number almost instantly.


I've dated models, I've dated actresses, and I've dated nice, normal, regular girls as well.


It has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick, insecure feeling... like I don't know how to meet women... and I might wind up alone.


I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women.


I've written a book on the topic, and I've done seminars on both coasts of the United States... and taught tens of thousands of men all around the world.


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1) Being Too Much Of A "Nice" Guy
NEVER

2) Trying To "Convince" Her To Like You
NEVER

3) Looking For Her Approval Or Permission
WHAT ???

4) Trying To Buy Affection With Food And Gifts
I BUY FOOD FOR MY WIFE AND USED TO GIVE GIFTS TO ****FRIENDS.

5) Sharing How You "Feel" Too Early With Her
I HAVE HARD TIME TO SHARE THAT EVEN WITH MY WIFE

6) Not "Getting" How Attraction Works For Her
CURE : EXPERIENCE

7) Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks
TRUE IN MAJORITY OF CASES. FEMALES ARE LIKE CATS, THEY LIKE YOU AS LONG AS YOU HAVE WHAT THEY WANT.

8) Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women
SEE ANSWER #3

9) Not Knowing What To Do In Each Type Of Situation
IF THIS HAPPENS, IT'S CALLED STRIKE 3 (LOOKING)

10) Not Getting Help
JUST BUY THE DAMN CD/DVD PROGRAM
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right on the money. man, great read couldnt have come at a better time, trying to salvage a two year relationship. and #5, never mind 1 or 2 dates you may not want to do this after 2 years especially if the girl is younger.

thanks for the read!
 

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I think it all depends on the specific girl though actually Shrink. I know some girls that prefer nice guys, and some that like, well, let's just say jerk..........offs! I know one girl that prefers guys that are very bossy, and demanding. Everyone's different, but, the no.1 rule you posted about women sort of being unattracted to "nice~guys" does bear more meaning now~a~days with younger women being much more wild.
 

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shrink,

i hope those tips will help you in your future endevours. it took me all night to find that info on the internet for you.
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Why did you think of me Ken? lumping me with the beantown clown can`t be good!
 

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SHRINK I LOVE YOU LIKE A BROTHER BUT DONT TELL ME YOUR GOING TO CUT COSTS AND TRY AND REPLACE BUTTERNTS YOURSELF MAN IT WONT WORK.COMEDY JUST ISNT YOUR FORTAY YOU JUST STICK TO GETTING INSIDE INFORMATION FROM THE WISE GUYS AND HIRE SOMEBODY FOR THE COMEDY SHOW.JESUS CHRIST AT THIS POINT I WOULD EVEN WELCOME BACK THAT NO GOOD RAT BASTARD MEXICAN PEPE
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SO SHRINK I AM BEGGING
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YOU HIRE SOMEBODY ELSE FOR THE LAUGHS AND YOU JUST SIT BACK AND SIGN THE CHECKS.

ODDS SHRINK CAN SUPPLY HIS OWN COMEDY SHOW

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SHRINK MAKE SOME CALLS I WOULD EVEN WELCOME BACK SICK GAMBLER AT THIS POINT
 

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<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Journeyman:
Why did you think of me Ken? lumping me with the beantown clown can`t be good!<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

I believe that both of you "GENTLEMEN" will make great forum moderators.

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beantown is on fire

"we havent heard a peep from pepe since"

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"SHRINK MAKE SOME CALLS I WOULD EVEN WELCOME BACK SICK GAMBLER AT THIS POINT"


It's a shame his other stuff occasionaly gets edited I know a lot of people look forward to his posts even if others don't
 

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Thanks for the info, think that I had all this figured out by 10th grade
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WHAT 3 THINGS CAN'T YOU GIVE A SHVARTZA?

A BLACK EYE, A FAT LIP AND A JOB!!!
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MY top 10 mistakes with women ...

1. Listening to them
2. Trying to be "sensative"
3. Thinking "girls night out" is innocent
4. Not pursuing their hot friends
5. Giving them our real name and number
6. Telling them the truth when they ask, "how do i look"
7. Trying to understand their "thought" process
8. Thinking they all look like Angelle after 10 Coronas
9. Sacrificing the pre-game show to attend church and breakfast with them
10. Thinking that genetics is a fraud & that they WILL NOT end up looking like their non-MILF mother
 

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