OT: Male orgasm intensity decreasing w/ age

[festeringZit]

So, I figured this forum would be a good one to get some advice
on this matter.

It's probably directed more towards the elder male members.

I am in my early 40's, and I have noticed in the last year or two
that the intensity of my orgasms has decreased. I have no problem
"getting it up." My erection might not be as rock hard as it was when
I was 18, but that difference if there is very minor. What bothers me
is the lack of intensity of the orgasm.

I think this is normal and happens as we get older. My question is,
has anyone else experienced this as they got older, and is there
anything one can do to try to intensify the orgasm. I'd hope to not
have to go the illegal drug route, but I would entertain posts on
how that might have helped.

As a side note, I'm thinking about getting a cock ring just for the fun
of it - anyone have any advice/experience in using one?

Thanks...

 

[mr21]

I'm in my late 30s and miss the days of banging a chick missionary, pulling out, and having my spludge shoot as far as her face. :bunnies:

 

[MIKEY.1TIME]

put her top, hit it hard for a few, then have her move in and out very slowly, until you blow. you will get the CHILLS back

 

[kid44]

Dude,

Your dick is a muscle and is run by the brain and blood flow. Like anything else you need to exercise it regularly, however you choose. But I think the brain is clogging the pipes for you. Keep working out.

I am 46 and still like I was 18.

 

[salukidawg]

Yes, it DOES decline!

People don't like the answer and skirt it by saying "ability to have an orgasm doesn't decline with age." Yes, you can have an orgasm but do you feel anything??

I have researched the scientific literature, and also gone as far as a man can go with nonejaculatory orgasms when I was younger. I am also a triathlete with no physical problems, hard erections but since 40, the intensity of the orgasm has withered to next to nothing. Actually, the decline began around 18 and was very steady and SLOW (why guys don't notice it) until 40. Then it started going even faster (sometimes I feel next to nothing). I'm 45.

My wife meantime has been having BETTER sex - extended "massive" continuous orgasms of many different types. I ask her to describe her mindblowing minutes of orgasm but I don't think guys will ever appreciate how much better a great female orgasm is compare to our blips.

 

[salukidawg]

Here's just ONE study on the decline

http://tinyurl.com/2deznu

Keep in mind we start way behind women and the gap grows...

Sorry guys

 

[salukidawg]

More good news

http://tinyurl.com/ysj2zx

As my child would say, "it gets worser and worser!"

 

[MrJ]

I don't think guys will ever appreciate how much better a great female orgasm is compare to our blips.


Thought that's why we get them easier.

 

[salukidawg]

Easy come, easy go

Easy come, easy go! And then wait during your refractory period.

Ever heard of women worrying about "premature" orgasms? They can just have another one. We hold back, they reach out for pleasure.

 

[xpanda]

My wife meantime has been having BETTER sex - extended "massive" continuous orgasms of many different types. I ask her to describe her mindblowing minutes of orgasm but I don't think guys will ever appreciate how much better a great female orgasm is compare to our blips.

Us women apparently reach our 'peak' in our late thirties and it continues on until our mid-forties. (I was always skeptical of this, but I'm 37 now and turning into a believer.)

Given that men have their peak at 18-20, this might be one of the cruelest jokes Mother Nature ever played.

 

[salukidawg]

Peak at 37?

Does that mean you have multiples and the like?

Just read another scientific study of women and menopause:

Vaginally, and in terms of libido, women do take a hit in the later years BUT...the one thing that does NOT change is their ability to have clitoral orgasms -- as many as they want.

I calculated based on external measurements (force and "throw" of ejaculation), and internal sensation, that a man in his mid 40s has about 1/5 to one-tenth the orgasm he had when he was 18. And that is a single orgasm -- the CEILING for men, the FLOOR for women! When I was 18, it went flying across the room and now it dribbles. Half the time, I know I came but I hardly feel it at all.

I never thought I would prefer a good book to you-know-what. LOL

 

[xpanda]

Does that mean you have multiples and the like?

Just read another scientific study of women and menopause:

Vaginally, and in terms of libido, women do take a hit in the later years BUT...the one thing that does NOT change is their ability to have clitoral orgasms -- as many as they want.

Well, initially I thought it was because I'd gone nearly two years without. Got into a relationship, wanted it more than he did, and thought there must be something wrong. Then it dawned on me ...

I wouldn't say that the 'multiples' thing is strictly related to the 'peak' but the sex drive itself is definitely much higher.

Thank god for Duracell.

 

[Darwinian]

Stick a gerbil up your ass, that supposedly helps the intensity

 

[bigbet1234]

You kidding me? I can hit the wall in the bedroom from my bed 24ft easy, and I am 32. of course, my wife is hot as they come

 

[salukidawg]

Peaks and Valleys and Ben Franklin on Older Women

Yup, xpanda Mother Nature is cruel. But technology is wonderful, eh? For a fascinating short history of the vibrator (really!): _The Technology of Orgasm_.

Shooting your wad far is fine but can you do it for ten or 15 minutes in a row -- like my wife in continuous orgasm?

Ben Franklin wrote a delightful essay "Advice to a Young Man Contemplating a Lover" -- he advised the young man to get an older woman for a variety of reasons (the face is the first to show age and the process moves downward, but the loins of lover burn hotter than ever, etc.). I won't give away Franklin's punch line on why older women are better lovers. Look it up yourself! Here it is:

http://tinyurl.com/2p45e

 

[lionking]

probably because you are a Red Sox fan and only get to blow your load once every 86 years :lol:

 

[salukidawg]

One trick for deep, strong orgasm

The only time in my life I had an orgasm like a woman -- lasting a minute, legs gyrating wildly and deep intense pleasure pulsing through more than my local genital area . . . when my wife used an anal vibrator to hit my prostate at time of orgasm. It is very tricky and after you are married a while, women usually don't want to do it. It's not natural, they say.

Then again, muffdiving is not natural either but they don't complain. Don't try arguing or persuading a woman of your needs, however. (

 

[Phaedrus]

posted by xpanda:

Well, initially I thought it was because I'd gone nearly two years without. Got into a relationship, wanted it more than he did, and thought there must be something wrong. Then it dawned on me ...

I wouldn't say that the 'multiples' thing is strictly related to the 'peak' but the sex drive itself is definitely much higher.

Thank god for Duracell.

Pepper, years go by and you just keep getting hotter and hotter. One-gun salute!


Phaedrus

 

[levistep]

When I was 18, it went flying across the room and now it dribbles. Half the time, I know I came but I hardly feel it at all.

I never thought I would prefer a good book to you-know-what. LOL

Ohh man, i hope that doesn't happen to me. My boss at work told me the same thing.

 

[Mr. Wonderful]

I didn't read this thread because basically i find it depressing but if you are lookg for help in that department for defintely you middle aged guys, you may want to look at getting put on testosterone replacement therapy or of for spme reason, the doctor is a queer, you can always get some testosterone from the black market. You'll be horny all the time and it sets you back years. Also, growth hormone would help considering if you are in good shape. At least thats what i hear, I would never do something like this. the media wants you to think this kills you but the truth of it is it benefits millions of americans every year