i came real close - but then i decided to simply take the air out of her - and ever since that point in time we have gotten along great. she stills lies in bed and does nothing when we have sex - but then again - even when she was inflated she did the same thing!bigbet1234 said:
Wil: before that I came really close to getting my right hand cut off - but I told the Doc there was NO WAY I'd let him do that - and that we'd work out our differences and so far we have - but things are starting to get testy because now the right hand is jealous of the left one!
I don't mean to make a joke of it, but seriously you should most definitely not be asking what amounts to random strangers. Relationship issues should be dealt with by people that know you and ideally your significant other. What good could we do, even if we had done the same thing before? Every situation and person is so very different and to think we can add value is very wishful thinking.
In short, consult people that should know a lot better than any of us ever could.
In short, consult people that should know a lot better than any of us ever could.
yes but I think she saw it as an opportunity to try out some different d**k. seriously though, it was for 2 months I used most of the free time to become a gym rat so when she came back id be in better shape and then the hoe wouldnt think about 'seperation' anymore.
then we were together again for like 6 months (this after 2 years and a break) then she wanted to sperate again, and then I was like thats enough this is like the 3rd time and I am sick of being a "boomerang boyfriend" .
were not friends anymore we dont even talk. becuase after being seperated the couple times It just gave me more fuel in arguements I'd accuse her of this and that when I didnt have any real proof of what she did when were werent together. I am not usually over protective I trust my girlfriends. but she did everything she could to make me think something happened without directly saying it, but sometimes I think chics want to make you mad on purpose just so the sex will be better. but when the line gets crossed. . .
I've been single since and im cool with it. this is why I have more posts in a day than sick gambler in his prime. lol.
bigbet....is it a marriage or just dating....if it is just dating don't fret over it because there is nothing there except emotions.....if it is a marriage, beware there is a hell of alot at stake....money,property,emotions,kids,families on both sides,plus in a marriage if there is a seperation once it is going to get even easier down the road to do it again and again until finally the marriage is disolved and then we have major problems...starting over, usually broke pissed off and a bad taste in our mouths, and that goes for both sexes....i am not speakong from personal experience on this matter and i repeat not....i waited til i was 36 years old and then married my wife amy who was 22 at the time and we have been married for 10 years this month....i am actually speaking from seeing it first hand with friends and a brother who has been down that path....those movies always have the same ending...terrible....i think and this is just my own opinion that marriage is for a lifetime..we make the commitement dammit live up to it....divorce and separation are just to easy and **** it let's just get this thing over with....well, is the next one going to be better...probably not...but it sure looks good now.....i feel that what the people need to do is be able to communicate better with each other...take about 30 to 60 minutes a day to sit down and talk about the day and what we need to do to make this a more solid union...pay these bills...go out for dinner...play with friends..etc... not saying that my marriage is going to be the greatest thing going...but it will be the only marriage of my life...if there is not good communication between both parties involved it will never work...now with all that being said....you goobers get out there and visit with your wifes and let her communicate back with her opinions and ideas as well....remember it has got to be a two way street....do your best to make all relationships last a life time and you will feel better about life in general...damn i didn't think i would go on for that long...but do what you can to not separate...because it will only get worse....peace...the doctor...thanks for your time jeffksu...:manwh:
I do not think JEFKSU has anything to worry about he has hooked him a HOTTIE as I recall ...he is doing OKthanks dante i really appreciate that but....life is too short...try not to jack with others as you wouldn't want them to jack with you...i guess that is my point with all this discussion...always remember one thing...usually what comes around always goes around......treat others the way you would like to be treated and i feel that is the combination...for success...dante am looking forward to hanging with you guys at next years bash,,,,,thanks again..peace jeffksu:howdy:
jeffksu makes a great point. is it dating or marriage? i've been married and
divorced twice, so take my advice with a grain of salt. you mentioned other issues. you must address those issues with your partner. if you resolve the issues, great. but if you don't, they will likely always hinder the relationship.
i won't get detailed about my relationships, but communicating is the key. and
be sure to talk in a calm manner, without drinking or other substances involved.
best of luck.
divorced twice, so take my advice with a grain of salt. you mentioned other issues. you must address those issues with your partner. if you resolve the issues, great. but if you don't, they will likely always hinder the relationship.
i won't get detailed about my relationships, but communicating is the key. and
be sure to talk in a calm manner, without drinking or other substances involved.
best of luck.
