I lil cousin (13yrs) who I adore, I think is getting abused- emotionally and mentally by her parents. This was confirmed yesterday when her father called her a "fucking bitch" right in front of me. This wasnt a fucking bitch as in dad playing around (although, I dont think this is even possible), but it was meant to hurt and belittle the hell out of my lil cousin. I asked her if this was normal and while crying stated 'yes but the next day he always act like nothing happened and treats me great.' Both parents act like dicks to this child. They love the shit out of their youngest and dont care about the oldest. But the middle one is getting emotionally and mentally skulled fucked and I'm not sure what I'm supoosed to do.
I try to go over every weekend and spend as much time as I possibly can. She calls me everyday and we talk about everything. She trusts the shit out of me and more than one occasion has asked me if she can just live with me. That shit hurts my heart so much. I was verablly harassed and abused when I was young, and unforunatly, that is a norm for asian kids born outside of US. And I see this shit happening to my lil cousin, I want to fucking shoot both of those fuckers in the face and take all 3 in. She asked if there is a way to divorce her parents? I wanted to say yes and wanted to tell her how to go about it but held back. Can I raise this child better than a mommy and a daddy?
I had a huge talk with both parents with my lil cousin there stating that she feels depressed b/c of the way they treat her and thought everything was gonna get better. I was too optimistic. They think she's just being dramtic and is taking me for a ride. How the fuck can parents be for naivee? Do they actually think, adults are the only ones with problems and stress? WTF?
Now, they dont hit her but gives her some ridicilous punishments for being a kid. Too cut the long story short, her parents allowed her to go to a party where boys were present. The boy who she liked grabbed her ass and parents found out. She thought she was supposed to let boys do that to show she like them. (If the fucken FATHER showed her some FUCKEN attention, maybe she wouldnt have to feel this way). They found out and whole hell breaks lose and she's grounded forever. She was telling me she was confused at the time and she didnt know how she was supposed to react. Now, I'm no fucken parent, but I wouldnt fucken ground her for being groped. Fuck is next, when she gets raped they're gonna kick her out?
I don't know, if I'm supposed to call child services or not. I cant prove the shit which pisses me off. Poeple thinks their great parents cause the 13yr old is a straight A student, is in the SGA, has a smile on her face, etc...but inside, she's fucking rottening.
I'm not her dad. I show her all the love I can but it not the same. She knows this. She even said it to me. Now, the harassment isn't a 24 7 shit and I know alot of kids piss their parents off to no extent. Am I out of line or what?
I bought her a pay as you go phone for her to call me when she needs to talk. But her mom took that shit away and she (my lil cousin) tells me she sits in her room and just cries. I'm fucking clinching my teeth and holding my tears back as I write this hoping someone can tell me what to do cause I'm way over my head.
I try to go over every weekend and spend as much time as I possibly can. She calls me everyday and we talk about everything. She trusts the shit out of me and more than one occasion has asked me if she can just live with me. That shit hurts my heart so much. I was verablly harassed and abused when I was young, and unforunatly, that is a norm for asian kids born outside of US. And I see this shit happening to my lil cousin, I want to fucking shoot both of those fuckers in the face and take all 3 in. She asked if there is a way to divorce her parents? I wanted to say yes and wanted to tell her how to go about it but held back. Can I raise this child better than a mommy and a daddy?
I had a huge talk with both parents with my lil cousin there stating that she feels depressed b/c of the way they treat her and thought everything was gonna get better. I was too optimistic. They think she's just being dramtic and is taking me for a ride. How the fuck can parents be for naivee? Do they actually think, adults are the only ones with problems and stress? WTF?
Now, they dont hit her but gives her some ridicilous punishments for being a kid. Too cut the long story short, her parents allowed her to go to a party where boys were present. The boy who she liked grabbed her ass and parents found out. She thought she was supposed to let boys do that to show she like them. (If the fucken FATHER showed her some FUCKEN attention, maybe she wouldnt have to feel this way). They found out and whole hell breaks lose and she's grounded forever. She was telling me she was confused at the time and she didnt know how she was supposed to react. Now, I'm no fucken parent, but I wouldnt fucken ground her for being groped. Fuck is next, when she gets raped they're gonna kick her out?
I don't know, if I'm supposed to call child services or not. I cant prove the shit which pisses me off. Poeple thinks their great parents cause the 13yr old is a straight A student, is in the SGA, has a smile on her face, etc...but inside, she's fucking rottening.
I'm not her dad. I show her all the love I can but it not the same. She knows this. She even said it to me. Now, the harassment isn't a 24 7 shit and I know alot of kids piss their parents off to no extent. Am I out of line or what?
I bought her a pay as you go phone for her to call me when she needs to talk. But her mom took that shit away and she (my lil cousin) tells me she sits in her room and just cries. I'm fucking clinching my teeth and holding my tears back as I write this hoping someone can tell me what to do cause I'm way over my head.
