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The thread was started for us to work things out.
Not for you guys.
again this is a personal matter
 

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What I don't understand is how anyone would agree to step in for $30k in a situation like this. If that kind of money would go a long way in your life right now/have an impact on your future, then you should never lend anywhere close to that -- if any at all.

It was a good deed, but definitely lessons to be learned on both sides here. It's great that there appears to be a plan to make it right.
 

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The thread was started for us to work things out.
Not for you guys.
again this is a personal matter
You keep digging yourself a bigger hole! Your credibility is waning. If it's a personal matter then pm the parties involved. Deleting posts makes it seem you have something to hide.
 

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What I don't understand is how anyone would agree to step in for $30k in a situation like this. If that kind of money would go a long way in your life right now/have an impact on your future, then you should never lend anywhere close to that -- if any at all.

It was a good deed, but definitely lessons to be learned on both sides here. It's great that there appears to be a plan to make it right.
Let's hope so.
 

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So the money that was supposed to be held in escrow went to medical bills? I wish BAS the best with health and his family but these are 2 seperate things. My parents, sibling, significant other, and my kids are the only people I would vouch that much money for. I would rather have their well being than the money so they can have it. Holding 30k and saying you're doctor told you no gambling and then I can't get to the money right now is BS. Head mod or not. 2 years later Defying ain't getting paid.
 
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You keep digging yourself a bigger hole! Your credibility is waning. If it's a personal matter then pm the parties involved. Deleting posts makes it seem you have something to hide.

You keep digging yourself a bigger hole! Your credibility is waning. If it's a personal matter then pm the parties involved. Deleting posts makes it seem you have something to hide.
I wasn't the one to bring it out in the open, and I wasn't the one that cut ties
it has been worked out
 
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So the money that was supposed to be held in escrow went to medical bills? I wish BAS the best with health and his family but these are 2 seperate things. My parents, sibling, significant other, and my kids are the only people I would vouch that much money for. I would rather have their well being than the money so they can have it. Holding 30k and saying you're doctor told you no gambling and then I can't get to the money right now is BS. Head mod or not. 2 years later Defying ain't getting paid.
You can think what you want, that's not what happened, and hope you or your family never goes through what I did.
 

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So if that's not what happened, where did the 30K go? Why wasn't it held separately from your funds? If it was held separate what made you think you had the right to use other people's money?

It's nothing personal, it's business. People looked up to you, trusted you because you've been here and what you do here. You burned that trust and still even now, you haven't come out with a public apology and why you did it.

I truly feel for you on a lot of levels.
 

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I'm guessing no one really knows what there capable of doing until there put into that situation. I'm not saying it's right or wrong but thinking how you might react is all speculation. There by the grace of God go I. What do you want to be remembered for can get real ugly really quickly. Hopefully a silver lining comes out of this .
 
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So if that's not what happened, where did the 30K go? Why wasn't it held separately from your funds? If it was held separate what made you think you had the right to use other people's money?

It's nothing personal, it's business. People looked up to you, trusted you because you've been here and what you do here. You burned that trust and still even now, you haven't come out with a public apology and why you did it.

I truly feel for you on a lot of levels.
I said I won't give details, but the money was held separately and wasn't touched until 3 years later.
and I did apologize to the person I needed to.
 

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I said I won't give details, but the money was held separately and wasn't touched until 3 years later.
and I did apologize to the person I needed to.
This whole situation is sad and disappointing beyond belief.

tough to understand why nothing was paid for years to someone who did you such a solid if the money was held separately for 3 full years? This makes zero sense to me unless you always intended to stiff the person who helped you out.

It is not realistic that someone couldn’t make even a small good faith payment for multiple years even if the money was already spent. But if the money was there all along it makes it look even worse that there was nothing paid towards the debt for years.

hope you do the right thing. I’d own your mistake and make it right however long it takes. Never too late for a new beginning.
 

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there seems to be TWO sets of rules at the rx
1 for Posters & 1 for Mods ?
I mean let's be honest here , if a poster did that wouldn't they be history / gone / banned whatever terminology you'd like to use .

It seems both parties have reached some kind of deal & hopefully this situation gets resolved ?
 

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there seems to be TWO sets of rules at the rx
1 for Posters & 1 for Mods ?
I mean let's be honest here , if a poster did that wouldn't they be history / gone / banned whatever terminology you'd like to use .

It seems both parties have reached some kind of deal & hopefully this situation gets resolved ?
No. A poster here now stiffed Wilber and letting him still post
Under his 4th or 5th ghost
 

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Nobody explained what happened to the money
BAS said he didn't use it for medical bills...so....what was it used for?
 

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